"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kinda funny story

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So today Im sitting in this restaurant with my friend. Our waitress wasn't hot btw. Anyways fast forward to the end where Im given my id and credit card for paying for the bill-our waitress comes back and was like" have you seen the girl wearing black(another waitress there)"she says you're cute. I was like was that for me( to make sure it was for me and not my friend) and she said yes. So me n my friend kinda laughed as the waitress walked away. I wrote my name and number down on the slip w/ a smiley face. lol
So were outside walking towards our truck when our waitress calls to us out the door-shes like"She says she'll call you."
Well Lil background on me-Im in the military and Im only here in my hometown for a week before I have to go back to Texas so I was just having fun with it keeping in mind that thered be no point in going out with this girl. Anyways a few mins later I get a call-it said Private. I didnt bother answering it. I doubt she'll call again-she prolly feels awkward about things, and shes prolly a lil insecure seeing as she didnt come up to me herself. Btw from what I could see(she wasnt out waitress) the girl was pretty hot.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sexxyback

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what kind of social retard will give you her number like that but not even talk to you
 

So pimp its scary

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You don't just give a girl your number... that's uber-lame... especially a waitress that priobly gets hit on 30 times a night.
 

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That's a pretty rare occurence. Most girls won't do that. At least, I've never had it happen to me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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amnbyrd

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I didnt hit on the girl-she told our waitress to tell me I was cute. Idk if she was just too busy working to do it herself or insecure. I didnt get a chance to talk to her as she was working, anyways I was really just having fun with it as I know nothing can happen-I leave here on wednesday. But this was def a good confidence booster since I know most of the time girls wont make a move or put themselves out there like that.
 
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