“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Kinda bored with lack of decent value girls

DEEZEDBRAH

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Water seeks it's own level. If you only attract $hit, it's time to take a good look at the person in the mirror. What value do you bring to the table? Education? Great looks? Smooth talker?

What is up with guys blaming everyone else but themselves lately?
For the 80% of divorce initiated by women? For cratered smv chasing bad boys? For the single mom parade?

You must be product of said narrative.

Some guys need to get their testosterone checked.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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What is up with guys blaming everyone else but themselves lately?
Learning from the system. The people who run the world; politicians, government officials, military officials, judges, lawyers, CEOs, actors, and royal families don’t blame themselves.

Why should members of Sosuave blame themselves?
 

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You know, the weird thing I've noticed recently is that some really cool hot chicks that are in LTRs seem to stay for years and years with guys who are punching hugely above their weight.

Thinking back to say the last 10 parties I've been to, girls I'm interested in have talked about their BFs and shown me an FB pic and it's usually like a 4/10 basement dwelling guy. Not always but pretty often, I'd say about 5 of the 10 girls have a bf like that.

I can't figure it out, because it's not even like they're really "in love", which would at least explain their loyalty to that guy. Instead it's like they're just settling for some dweeb because that was what they decided on 5 years ago. Is it just a case of them having low self-esteem or something?

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Case in point, I knew this girl for about a year, a Swedish chick. Good looking, long braided pigtails, perhaps slightly overweight but with big natural boobs and attractive curves. She was fun to chat with and socially very outgoing. We danced in clubs a few times and flirted a bit.

Anyway, I went to a few parties she threw (almost hooked up with her other Swedish buddy actually...lol) and never once met her BF. The reason? He was too scared of socialising to even talk to us. So he just stayed in his room. Wtf?

Then she showed us some pics of him and he was really pale, like he never saw sunlight, was really skinnyfat and had his face almost totally covered in every pic. Definitely nowhere near what I would call a "high value male".

And yet here I am, with this chick resting her t*ts on me for selfie after selfie, making the whole room laugh...and she sticks with that dude for 6 years. How the f*ck did he even get her in the first place?! She'll probably have his kids and marry him too...really, really weird IMO.
 

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Sexual pair bonding when low partner count, usually. If not, then it's about compatible personality types and part of compatibility is allowing a controlling partner to control.

The more dominant you are, the more you will repel dominant women, and vice versa.
I remember when i was a nice guy... Alot of 10hb were interested in me. Especially 10HB with alot of expérience (they been with bad boy before etc)...

Too bad i was to "insecure" and "weak and nice" to ask them on a date. (Some even gave me their number).

Who knows how i would have turned up or if it would have been "the LTR of my life" .

I know one married a pro-football player and turned housewife, one is still plate turning but has a Professionnal career.

What those "shump guy" shows is that you can still "get the hottie". Have confidence and make it happen.

Note: who knows if they faithful or not.. Also, maybe they werent shump at the first date. Anyway, they got the girl.

At the end, you need to keep your frame strong and take the opportunities. As the girl seek to bring your frame under her control, you have to softly resistm
 

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I’m with you bud!!! The women I see day to day are mostly trash. I’d rather be 3 months celibate than bang an HB 5. I don’t care about lay count. I care about quality.

I’m spending the summer in Miami and LA so hopefully that will mix things up a bit
 

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He isn't even talking about attract, he said he hasn't even MET them. Why is it so difficult for you to believe in a bad market even for good looking charming high status guys?
Well...
Can you control your actions?
Can your actions determine the people you bring into your life?
Does your career determine the people you meet?
Does your hobbies determine the people you meet?
Does your leisure activities determine the people you meet?
Does cold approach determine the people you meet?
Does your first impression affect all of these encounters?
Do your confidence affect these encounters?
Is your opinion of other people subjective?
Is your opinion correct to you?

Everything you do impacts every encounter you make with another human being. They have friends and family that care about them, meaning someone's subjective analysis of a person being low quality would be contrary to the opinions of 50 other people that love them.

So why does 1 outweigh 50 or more? It doesnt, it is merely your opinion about that individual based on your experiences with them. And your experiences are a result of both of your actions.

And if you get treated poorly by 50 women and label them as low quality, why does your 1 opinion outweigh them? The fact is they are not a good fit for you, and you need to alter your hunting ground to find the values that match your own, or you are basically just spinning your wheels.

If I chased waitresses, starbucks baristas, and other blue collar careers or those without ambition, I would be at a complete loss. Instead, I pursue beautiful emotionally intelligent educated women with six figure salaries and incredible personalities that have a zest for adventure. That is my playground, not the one with the broken swing set on the other side of the tracks.

What is your playground?
 

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Guys on here should pray they aren’t single in their 30’s

I’ve been through so many dates where the woman has given me a laundry list of what she wants in a husband. My ex wanted to talk about kids within two months of the relationship.
 

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They are rare. Women higher in quality have more stable attachments and so tend to be in LTR's more than not. On top of that, women that meet the standards that we as DJ's should accept at a minimum are rare anyway. I met one in a year of dating and I'm still with her for now. Not even sure I could be bothered putting in the effort if I became single again. As great as my girlfriend is, it took a while to meet her. At the end of the day, there are no unicorns either so even with a high quality woman, you've still gotta game right and be high value. The only reason I don't stick to plate spinning is because I don't enjoy it. It makes so much more sense though, I wish I did.
Big ups brah.

The thing is that, you spin plates, and things drop sooner or later.

I don't attempt to fix what's broken. It's easier to go get Baes.

Even pointing out the ****ery in the dating pool, the high kill count, stds, single moms, and entitlement among other things. Betas, cucks, and white knights will pedal to the feminine. It's evident here and IRL. It's you're dumped, it's game or misogyny. It is not an argument but, those pushing the narrative cannot compete so, they fallback on being a male feminist. It's pathetic.

I obviously don't condone insanity, make or female. A lot of Incels were going full retard. I mentioned about the gta incident and women making a mockery of the events. Let's flip the script. A group of men mock a woman not getting the ring, cannot have children, and she goes psycho. How does that play out?


There's definitely a power play going on. Demonize masculinity. Parade girl power. Beta make shame men. Pedal to the feminine in the school systems and workplace. Hyper sexualize the feminine and pedal gender fluidity. Turn little boys into little girls, remove competition, and sports. Remove rough play, remove the fathers from the household, and situate them into man hater women in government education. Lower make grades. Take away their jobs. Give them to women. Affirmation action. Emasculate men and little boys.

The list goes on. There's a psychological battle going on mgtow is a symptom. Incels and psychopathy us again a symptom to a much larger problem.


This will Exacerbate the problem. Not minimize it. Masculinity is not the problem. It is the lack of integration of what Carl Jung referred referred to as the shadow. A man must face his shadow, the deepest, and darkest aspect of one's psyche. It must be integrated. Aspects of the feminine is placed on the pedestal no matter how disgusting the behavior.

This lack of understanding of the masculine is not without its consequences. It goes beyond these incidents. The pathology is interwoven in the structure and fabric of society. Man is bad. Woman is good. Once a man integrates said piece into one's self concept, the monster is let loose.

If one truly seeks out 'toxic masculinity,' the path society is on now is greatly amplifying the worst of the worst aspects of man.

These individuals are sick and psycho. A woman is pedaled her victim narrative. Man is demonized. At what point does one break?



Society won't dictate to me what the masculine is nor my role which isn't catering to the feminine biological strategy when it's convenient. I have dreams. I have a path. As a man, I will lead by example, extend the olive branch in the form of a open hand in invitation. Adventure beacons. Come with or get left behind.

Jordan Peterson is bang on about standing up right, shoulders back, head up and speaking one's truth amid the tyranny. It's the ideal place of origin to integrate the shadow speaking your truth and living accordingly. The willingness to live at your edge and to go out on your shield.
 
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