"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So I have a female best friend.... yes not the best thing on this planet but can be very helpful at times...

regardless I came here because I needed some advice... situation is we hooked up, long story short we were both kinda into it... both made our attempts to stop the situation but didnt get to far. But the next day she was acting weird and didnt really want to talk to me or anything so i was just stricken by that.... any advice would be greatly appreciated... thanks!



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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Define "hook up."

She is probably just uncomfortable about the whole thing. See if she changes her tune in a few days, but you should act the same as always (as if nothing happened). Report in with what happens.

It could be any number of things really. Perhaps in the heat of the moment she wanted to get down but now taken out of the situation she regrets it. Maybe she thinks this will change your friendship and is afraid of the relationship suffering somehow.
 
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with hook up just pretty much dry sexing and a lot of kissing touching a lot heh yeah I dunno where it stands right now kind of in the middle of things
 
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