"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So I have a female best friend.... yes not the best thing on this planet but can be very helpful at times...

regardless I came here because I needed some advice... situation is we hooked up, long story short we were both kinda into it... both made our attempts to stop the situation but didnt get to far. But the next day she was acting weird and didnt really want to talk to me or anything so i was just stricken by that.... any advice would be greatly appreciated... thanks!



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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Define "hook up."

She is probably just uncomfortable about the whole thing. See if she changes her tune in a few days, but you should act the same as always (as if nothing happened). Report in with what happens.

It could be any number of things really. Perhaps in the heat of the moment she wanted to get down but now taken out of the situation she regrets it. Maybe she thinks this will change your friendship and is afraid of the relationship suffering somehow.
 
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with hook up just pretty much dry sexing and a lot of kissing touching a lot heh yeah I dunno where it stands right now kind of in the middle of things
 
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