"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"Kim Kardashian"
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Just saw her stats and notised she is around 64kg at 1.59 cm, still very hot. One thing I have notised in recent years are a growing acceptance of curvier girls, I am in no ways endorcing fat acceptance, I don't mind seeing women who are around Kim's stats.
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You are on crack. There is nothing redeemable about Kim Kardashian. She's ugly vapid and the poster child of what is wrong with society.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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So you're saying that if you were half in the bag in a semi-dark bar and she offered you a BJ, you'd turn her down?HalfAddict said:
How 'bout if she promised to buy you a few drinks and dinner afterwards?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Yeah, but you'd bang anything that moves...male or female. No big surprise there. I don't know about "most dudes" though. Most African American dudes maybe. You guys seem to have a thing for big fat asses.Jaylan said:
^Pathetic insults are their finest 
I love how youre pretending that chick is not attractive. Most men, no matter what their background, would give it to that girl. She is by no means "fat". http://www.latinrapper.com/media/kardashian-miami-01.jpg Last year in Miami. I want to know what nancy boys out there are turning down a night with that body.
Shes had a kid, which may change things a bit...but no sane many is turning down a chance to smash her as she looks in that pic.
I love how youre pretending that chick is not attractive. Most men, no matter what their background, would give it to that girl. She is by no means "fat". http://www.latinrapper.com/media/kardashian-miami-01.jpg Last year in Miami. I want to know what nancy boys out there are turning down a night with that body.Shes had a kid, which may change things a bit...but no sane many is turning down a chance to smash her as she looks in that pic.
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What makes you an authority on most men? You are not even a straight male by the conventional definition of the term.Jaylan said:^Pathetic insults are their finest
Shes had a kid, which may change things a bit...but no sane many is turning down a chance to smash her as she looks in that pic.
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I guess you don't mind the cottage cheese, huh? Cellulite seriously turns me off. But to each their own.Fatal Jay said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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