Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
So you're saying that if you were half in the bag in a semi-dark bar and she offered you a BJ, you'd turn her down?HalfAddict said:You are on crack. There is nothing redeemable about Kim Kardashian. She's ugly vapid and the poster child of what is wrong with society.
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-OkMpXMzyPUw/Tzd77W6ONRI/AAAAAAAAAPc/KrCWLjaIiIk/s1600/Kim+Kardashian+Without+Makeup.jpghockster said:I'd like to see what she looks like without the poundage of makeup, fancy hair and sexy clothes.
Still cute.Bokanovsky said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Yeah, but you'd bang anything that moves...male or female. No big surprise there. I don't know about "most dudes" though. Most African American dudes maybe. You guys seem to have a thing for big fat asses.Jaylan said:Still cute.
Looks better without makeup.
Would bang her till she was bow legged.
Most dudes would too unless they are nancy boys.
Some lie and say they wouldnt so they can seem selective.
What makes you an authority on most men? You are not even a straight male by the conventional definition of the term.Jaylan said:^Pathetic insults are their finestI love how youre pretending that chick is not attractive. Most men, no matter what their background, would give it to that girl. She is by no means "fat". http://www.latinrapper.com/media/kardashian-miami-01.jpg Last year in Miami. I want to know what nancy boys out there are turning down a night with that body.
Shes had a kid, which may change things a bit...but no sane many is turning down a chance to smash her as she looks in that pic.
Bokanovsky said:Yeah, but you'd bang anything that moves...male or female. No big surprise there. I don't know about "most dudes" though. Most African American dudes maybe. You guys seem to have a thing for big fat asses.
I guess you don't mind the cottage cheese, huh? Cellulite seriously turns me off. But to each their own.Fatal Jay said:that's cause they can handle our big ****s
its a reason why kim stay dating blacks and been married to one
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.