everyone is unique, and so are you..you can read all the articles here and still be the same guy, maybe even worse than before..i am not an expert in this area myself..and you know what? NOBODY IS PERFECT. I have this amazing quote i was using..let me ask you something..do you have friends???dont tell me you are living on a tree in an island with wireless broadband telling me this..tell me do you have close relationships with your family or friends? like ONE best friend at least? Notice how you communicate with him. Natural and not worrying about yourself right? you can make jokes that seems so funny although its stupid or lame with him..well here is what i tell you mate.."all your friends started as STRANGERS before you meet them"..and other people are no different..yes not everybody is perfect and may have bad intentions but its best for you that you treat everybody like your best friend..nobody becomes a master don juan instantly..it takes effort(except few talented ones)..hey start off small..make friends..the guy next to you in the bus or this guy in school could make a good friend..you got to make a move