"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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everyone is unique, and so are you..you can read all the articles here and still be the same guy, maybe even worse than before..i am not an expert in this area myself..and you know what? NOBODY IS PERFECT. I have this amazing quote i was using..let me ask you something..do you have friends???dont tell me you are living on a tree in an island with wireless broadband telling me this..tell me do you have close relationships with your family or friends? like ONE best friend at least? Notice how you communicate with him. Natural and not worrying about yourself right? you can make jokes that seems so funny although its stupid or lame with him..well here is what i tell you mate.."all your friends started as STRANGERS before you meet them"..and other people are no different..yes not everybody is perfect and may have bad intentions but its best for you that you treat everybody like your best friend..nobody becomes a master don juan instantly..it takes effort(except few talented ones)..hey start off small..make friends..the guy next to you in the bus or this guy in school could make a good friend..you got to make a move
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I do want to better myself. I am trying to figure out a way. I realize no one is perfect, but I think part of my problem comes from some sort of fear of judgement, all these little things I am trying to let go of. That has been my problem, making a move. It feels like something has been wrong with me.
 
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