"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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everyone is unique, and so are you..you can read all the articles here and still be the same guy, maybe even worse than before..i am not an expert in this area myself..and you know what? NOBODY IS PERFECT. I have this amazing quote i was using..let me ask you something..do you have friends???dont tell me you are living on a tree in an island with wireless broadband telling me this..tell me do you have close relationships with your family or friends? like ONE best friend at least? Notice how you communicate with him. Natural and not worrying about yourself right? you can make jokes that seems so funny although its stupid or lame with him..well here is what i tell you mate.."all your friends started as STRANGERS before you meet them"..and other people are no different..yes not everybody is perfect and may have bad intentions but its best for you that you treat everybody like your best friend..nobody becomes a master don juan instantly..it takes effort(except few talented ones)..hey start off small..make friends..the guy next to you in the bus or this guy in school could make a good friend..you got to make a move
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I do want to better myself. I am trying to figure out a way. I realize no one is perfect, but I think part of my problem comes from some sort of fear of judgement, all these little things I am trying to let go of. That has been my problem, making a move. It feels like something has been wrong with me.
 
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