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I was just reading a post about buying a girl a drink/shot, and a number of you guys are still saying "don't ever buy a girl a drink" for this and that reason. I'm hear to let you know this is B0llocks. A myth.

First off, let me make this clear - It's perfectly fine to buy her a drink... In fact buying a girl a drink is a good thing :) hears a few guidelines though.

She must be attracted to you on some level. The reason for this is because you will be wasting your time buying her a drink if shes not interested in you sexually. She will end up leading you on all night buying her drinks.

She keeps asking you to buy her a drink. If you approach a girl, start chatting and all of a sudden she asks you to buy her a drink its not a good sign. It could be a test - so pass the test without buying a her a drink. If she asks again or gets all proper on you, you know the girl just wants free drinks all night. Move on.

Buy a girl a drink on your own terms only - when it suits you. If you want to get the drinks in then do so, but do not do it thinking "if I spend some money she will want to svck me off". It willcome across as AFC.

don't go over board buying her drink after drink. Thats plain fvcking stupid. Buying her ONE drink is good... And this is why

Lets say your interacting with a girl, shes attracted to you and its all going along nicely. Tell her you want to have a shot with her... take her by the hand and lead her to the bar... keep talking. This will occupy her logical brain and will reduce the chance of her resisting being led. You can take the rest from there you guys.

Lets say you open a 4-set. She's attracted to you and its all going along nicely, but you need to get her way from her group so you can escalate the interaction. What better way to do this than saying something like "I am just going to take Emma for a quick shot of Sambuca… we’ll be back in a few minutes". Take her by the hand, and lead her away smoothly and keep talking. Job done.

In both these examples you can lead her away from the bar to another area!!

I'm always breaking "game rules". Anyway there you have it. It's a myth. Go out and buy that hot chick a drink!!!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I disagree totally.

It's true that u shouldn't buy her a drink if she's not interested, but even if she is interested and attracted to u why would u buy her a drink then? I mean, it doesn't raise her interest level if u buy her a drink.
 
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I disagree totally.
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Hear we go ;)

It's true that u shouldn't buy her a drink if she's not interested, but even if she is interested and attracted to u why would u buy her a drink then?
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Did you read the examples I gave? Leading/Isolation.

I mean, it doesn't raise her interest level if u buy her a drink.
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Leading doesnt raise interest/attraction then?
 
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I agree with sexybeast, as long as your buying her a drink on your own terms. If she likes you, there is no problem with that. It shows your not a stingy guy.

I would also recommend "choosing" a drink for her, not asking what she wants. Anything sweet is good, also champagne with a strawberry in it always gets a chuckle. When you "choose" her drink it shows you have confidence in what you are doing.:up: But take notice of what she normally drinks, if you see her drinking beer, obviously do not buy her a vodka cruiser or any of that looly water crap.:nono:
 
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I agree with sexybeast, as long as your buying her a drink on your own terms. If she likes you, there is no problem with that. It shows your not a stingy guy.

I would also recommend "choosing" a drink for her, not asking what she wants. Anything sweet is good, also champagne with a strawberry in it always gets a chuckle. When you "choose" her drink it shows you have confidence in what you are doing.:up: But take notice of what she normally drinks, if you see her drinking beer, obviously do not buy her a vodka cruiser or any of that looly water crap.:nono:
 

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foxhound87 said:
I agree with sexybeast, as long as your buying her a drink on your own terms. If she likes you, there is no problem with that. It shows your not a stingy guy.

I would also recommend "choosing" a drink for her, not asking what she wants. Anything sweet is good, also champagne with a strawberry in it always gets a chuckle. When you "choose" her drink it shows you have confidence in what you are doing.:up: But take notice of what she normally drinks, if you see her drinking beer, obviously do not buy her a vodka cruiser or any of that looly water crap.:nono:
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Best way is to SHARE the drink and make sure it's what YOU WANT.
 
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It's not so much what you do as how you do it.
 
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Originally Posted by sexybeast
Buy a girl a drink on your own terms only - when it suits you. If you want to get the drinks in then do so, but do not do it thinking "if I spend some money she will want to svck me off". It willcome across as AFC.

This is all you really need to say.
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Yeah your right Kev, but some people need to know a little more.
 
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Well I have a different point of view on all this. My overall goal is making the pickup harder, not easier (besides I'm a cheap bastard). Since I'm in for the challenge and self improvement, not necessarily the girl (fringe benefits), I generally never buy the drink. I also avoid supplication.

Also, I hate alcohol so I don't spend money on it, but that's beside the point.

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I agree with only buying her one drink. If she likes it, she'll ask for more, and you just say "no use your own money". It's almost as if you were teasing her. This will immediately set the frame that you're considerate enough to get her a drink, which will separate you from all the abusers and players in this world, but you're not wimpy enough to get her another. It's a good presentation of balance.
 
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Although I can't go to bars yet, I'm thinking its okay to buy a girl a drink, but only if she came to the bar with you, or you've been chatting with her for a bit. Basically, in my opinion, you shouldn't be buying girls drinks who just approach you with "Wanna buy me a drink?" Thats when you just tell the ho flat out, "I'm not T-Pain, what makes you think I'd buy a drink for a girl I don't even know?"
 
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ValleyDJing said:
Although I can't go to bars yet, I'm thinking its okay to buy a girl a drink, but only if she came to the bar with you, or you've been chatting with her for a bit. Basically, in my opinion, you shouldn't be buying girls drinks who just approach you with "Wanna buy me a drink?" Thats when you just tell the ho flat out, "I'm not T-Pain, what makes you think I'd buy a drink for a girl I don't even know?"
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haha awesome comeback, I'll actually start using that.
 
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