I was just reading a post about buying a girl a drink/shot, and a number of you guys are still saying "don't ever buy a girl a drink" for this and that reason. I'm hear to let you know this is B0llocks. A myth.
First off, let me make this clear - It's perfectly fine to buy her a drink... In fact buying a girl a drink is a good thing
hears a few guidelines though.
She must be attracted to you on some level. The reason for this is because you will be wasting your time buying her a drink if shes not interested in you sexually. She will end up leading you on all night buying her drinks.
She keeps asking you to buy her a drink. If you approach a girl, start chatting and all of a sudden she asks you to buy her a drink its not a good sign. It could be a test - so pass the test without buying a her a drink. If she asks again or gets all proper on you, you know the girl just wants free drinks all night. Move on.
Buy a girl a drink on your own terms only - when it suits you. If you want to get the drinks in then do so, but do not do it thinking "if I spend some money she will want to svck me off". It willcome across as AFC.
don't go over board buying her drink after drink. Thats plain fvcking stupid. Buying her ONE drink is good... And this is why
Lets say your interacting with a girl, shes attracted to you and its all going along nicely. Tell her you want to have a shot with her... take her by the hand and lead her to the bar... keep talking. This will occupy her logical brain and will reduce the chance of her resisting being led. You can take the rest from there you guys.
Lets say you open a 4-set. She's attracted to you and its all going along nicely, but you need to get her way from her group so you can escalate the interaction. What better way to do this than saying something like "I am just going to take Emma for a quick shot of Sambuca… we’ll be back in a few minutes". Take her by the hand, and lead her away smoothly and keep talking. Job done.
In both these examples you can lead her away from the bar to another area!!
I'm always breaking "game rules". Anyway there you have it. It's a myth. Go out and buy that hot chick a drink!!!
First off, let me make this clear - It's perfectly fine to buy her a drink... In fact buying a girl a drink is a good thing
hears a few guidelines though.She must be attracted to you on some level. The reason for this is because you will be wasting your time buying her a drink if shes not interested in you sexually. She will end up leading you on all night buying her drinks.
She keeps asking you to buy her a drink. If you approach a girl, start chatting and all of a sudden she asks you to buy her a drink its not a good sign. It could be a test - so pass the test without buying a her a drink. If she asks again or gets all proper on you, you know the girl just wants free drinks all night. Move on.
Buy a girl a drink on your own terms only - when it suits you. If you want to get the drinks in then do so, but do not do it thinking "if I spend some money she will want to svck me off". It willcome across as AFC.
don't go over board buying her drink after drink. Thats plain fvcking stupid. Buying her ONE drink is good... And this is why
Lets say your interacting with a girl, shes attracted to you and its all going along nicely. Tell her you want to have a shot with her... take her by the hand and lead her to the bar... keep talking. This will occupy her logical brain and will reduce the chance of her resisting being led. You can take the rest from there you guys.
Lets say you open a 4-set. She's attracted to you and its all going along nicely, but you need to get her way from her group so you can escalate the interaction. What better way to do this than saying something like "I am just going to take Emma for a quick shot of Sambuca… we’ll be back in a few minutes". Take her by the hand, and lead her away smoothly and keep talking. Job done.
In both these examples you can lead her away from the bar to another area!!
I'm always breaking "game rules". Anyway there you have it. It's a myth. Go out and buy that hot chick a drink!!!