"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Killer online opener

zinc4

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Has been getting a lot of positive responses and sexual innuendo going right off the bat.

Just say:

I could totally picture you in a vampire flick

Used it on a hb7.5 who ignored my first message a month earlier and now she is agreeing to drink together.

Date closed another hb7 set up to go to her house next Friday (too hungover today).....the entire process took only 20 mins of chatting got her address and everything

Going to another hb7s house tomorrow I met with it...took a little more leg work...two days of on off chatting..and she's been sending nude pics saying she likes to be smacked around.

Try it and report back.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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El Payaso

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What's the follow up after saying that?
 

zinc4

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They ask why or start flirting...I say just looks like u like to be bitten if they ask why
 

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Stats OP!

How many you sent that to? How many responses?

What platform? (Tinder I presume?)
 

zinc4

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Tinder and okcupid..

I messaged 6 girls it so far got three dates two still working on and one ignore.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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om1xr

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What OP is saying here is avoid the boring openers like hi, how are you...etc unless you are 10 because most humans are shallow.

Sending intriguing openers or statements is the beginning of fvcking her mind before her body, it may be a paradox because the hot guy fvck her body and make her body send signals to mind that start rationalizing that guy is worth a fvck even if the only value that guy has is his good looks, mind rationalizing is a bless and curse but the wise men make it works for them by using the perfect words and statements to get her to his bed.

another point is when you invite her for the first date or hangout, always text her something that make her know that you are a sexual man like:

"make sure to wear pretty panties for me tonight"
" Don't forget to put something sexy on those sexy legs of yours" (if she has sexy legs of course)
"no bra tonight"
 

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I tried this and am at a loss.

Me: <opener>
Her: why?
Me: seems like you like to get bitten
Her: huh?/why?/how so?
 
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