"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Has been getting a lot of positive responses and sexual innuendo going right off the bat.

Just say:

I could totally picture you in a vampire flick

Used it on a hb7.5 who ignored my first message a month earlier and now she is agreeing to drink together.

Date closed another hb7 set up to go to her house next Friday (too hungover today).....the entire process took only 20 mins of chatting got her address and everything

Going to another hb7s house tomorrow I met with it...took a little more leg work...two days of on off chatting..and she's been sending nude pics saying she likes to be smacked around.

Try it and report back.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What's the follow up after saying that?
 
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They ask why or start flirting...I say just looks like u like to be bitten if they ask why
 
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Stats OP!

How many you sent that to? How many responses?

What platform? (Tinder I presume?)
 
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Tinder and okcupid..

I messaged 6 girls it so far got three dates two still working on and one ignore.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What OP is saying here is avoid the boring openers like hi, how are you...etc unless you are 10 because most humans are shallow.

Sending intriguing openers or statements is the beginning of fvcking her mind before her body, it may be a paradox because the hot guy fvck her body and make her body send signals to mind that start rationalizing that guy is worth a fvck even if the only value that guy has is his good looks, mind rationalizing is a bless and curse but the wise men make it works for them by using the perfect words and statements to get her to his bed.

another point is when you invite her for the first date or hangout, always text her something that make her know that you are a sexual man like:

"make sure to wear pretty panties for me tonight"
" Don't forget to put something sexy on those sexy legs of yours" (if she has sexy legs of course)
"no bra tonight"
 
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I tried this and am at a loss.

Me: <opener>
Her: why?
Me: seems like you like to get bitten
Her: huh?/why?/how so?
 
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