"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Killer comeback...your tips please

Lion

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Haha Im in a funny mood, this girl who was very distant at a party the other night has just messaged me saying shes:
"sorry I never got to say bye properly hope you have a good summer break and good luck looking for a grad job. No doubt I will see you on myspace blah blah Speak soon "girl" X"

Now I was slightly baffled when she was distant at the party, we have been seeing each other for a short time. I just left her alone and made my own fun, flirted with a few girls and danced hard.
This girl is going on a long haul holiday to spain so I was going to txt back,


"Dont worry about it, you too. Oh enjoy the paella! Adios"

Is this a good reply? I read What to do if she breaks up with you...(winning her back) donpepot's post. Be polite and indifferent etc...

Should I be more polite- she was distant to me at the party. I've done nothing wrong. So no. But could I say anything "killer" to comeback with?:box:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anything killer you could of said would not matter once she steps on that plane.

ONLY her attraction for you will bring her back to you, NOT some cheap smartass sentence. Now, since she seemed kind of "distant" that night, it would be easy to say that her attraction level is not very high, and you did nothing to bring it up.

Now, while she's gone, practice on other girls. Make one or two fall in love with you, whatever you want.

When she comes back, then you can try to ATTRACT her again.
 

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thanks Doc.

It seems she could have been trying to break my Don Juan.

As you say I did nothing to raise her interest levels, I was wearing a tux and had a haircut. Looking better than usual so I think she may be a "__someone who wants to turn guys into AFCs___"

She said something which I did not hear but the sentence ended with "so Ill see you later" so I walked away no questions and smiled.

Do you think a quick polite reply is of the order?

Would it be better to not txt back?

thanks
 

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Docs I mean.
Well I think I just got a kick out of her txting me, Im calm now.
Was just going to wish her an "amazing" holiday. "Send me a postcard of your ass"....

She will contact me again.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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