"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Killer Calves

HandyAndy

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I want some big defined calves, summer is coming up :)

I have "chicken legs", small calves and a big upperbody, it doesnt look right. Can I add some calve exercises, before my original workout plan? I want muscular (to an extent) and most of all, defined calves.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You will just be using up your recovery energy on your calf's instead of overall growth which will get you better results in the long run.

Build a strong base, then focus on the smaller things.

It's just quicker that way.

Or you could just ignore what I said and focus on your calf's, but you will not be impressed with the results until you build a solid base.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Ride a bike, quickly and often . They will get defined along with your quads. Most good non-recreational cyclist have legs like Clydesdales without needing to depend on just power squats. :up:
 

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I don't see anything wrong with doing calves after squats. I think you should include calves in your workout. If you can find time to do biceps or abs then you can do calves.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wolf116

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If he was on a different program, then yes.

But he is on a Rippetoe beginner program. Just focus on building your base before you worry about anything.
 

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Well, you won't be on the rippetoe program very long, if you stay consistent you will eventually stop progressing (adding weight to the bar).

If you keep your journal going and you seem to be stalling, I'm sure one of the guys will direct you to a solid program.
 

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My calves are in need of improvement. What I've been doing for the last month on my leg days is a simple yet pretty effective plan, I can feel the difference on my legs, and muscles I didn't know where there.

Warm up/stretch 2min
Squats 10x10 progressively heavier and then on the break goto the calf raise and set a modest weight. Flex up, hold for 40 seconds, increasing either weight or time (I do 20sec each time).
 

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I have fairly muscular calves from playing a lot of soccer as a kid. I think anything that invovles a lot of running would do the same.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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What I have found to be a very effective calf training exercise is balancing yourself on a 2x4 block of wood and doing 6-8 sets of 15-20 reps standing raises w/a barbell.
I got all the way up to 120 lbs for 7 sets of 15 but changed the rep scheme to 20 as of recently whilst dropping down to 95 lbs.

That and I bike like F d'A said. As of right now, if ur program is not advocating any calf work @ all, u can try an unweighted trick I learned of from a wrestler. What u can do is walk around on the balls of ur feet like ur tip-toeing and it will strengthen them, this is good to do around the house not so much in public.
 
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