"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Killer Calves

HandyAndy

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I want some big defined calves, summer is coming up :)

I have "chicken legs", small calves and a big upperbody, it doesnt look right. Can I add some calve exercises, before my original workout plan? I want muscular (to an extent) and most of all, defined calves.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You will just be using up your recovery energy on your calf's instead of overall growth which will get you better results in the long run.

Build a strong base, then focus on the smaller things.

It's just quicker that way.

Or you could just ignore what I said and focus on your calf's, but you will not be impressed with the results until you build a solid base.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Ride a bike, quickly and often . They will get defined along with your quads. Most good non-recreational cyclist have legs like Clydesdales without needing to depend on just power squats. :up:
 

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I don't see anything wrong with doing calves after squats. I think you should include calves in your workout. If you can find time to do biceps or abs then you can do calves.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If he was on a different program, then yes.

But he is on a Rippetoe beginner program. Just focus on building your base before you worry about anything.
 

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Well, you won't be on the rippetoe program very long, if you stay consistent you will eventually stop progressing (adding weight to the bar).

If you keep your journal going and you seem to be stalling, I'm sure one of the guys will direct you to a solid program.
 

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My calves are in need of improvement. What I've been doing for the last month on my leg days is a simple yet pretty effective plan, I can feel the difference on my legs, and muscles I didn't know where there.

Warm up/stretch 2min
Squats 10x10 progressively heavier and then on the break goto the calf raise and set a modest weight. Flex up, hold for 40 seconds, increasing either weight or time (I do 20sec each time).
 

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I have fairly muscular calves from playing a lot of soccer as a kid. I think anything that invovles a lot of running would do the same.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What I have found to be a very effective calf training exercise is balancing yourself on a 2x4 block of wood and doing 6-8 sets of 15-20 reps standing raises w/a barbell.
I got all the way up to 120 lbs for 7 sets of 15 but changed the rep scheme to 20 as of recently whilst dropping down to 95 lbs.

That and I bike like F d'A said. As of right now, if ur program is not advocating any calf work @ all, u can try an unweighted trick I learned of from a wrestler. What u can do is walk around on the balls of ur feet like ur tip-toeing and it will strengthen them, this is good to do around the house not so much in public.
 
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