Where the hell do you see him say he was insulted?Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Vincent: I don't care if people insult you, that gives you no reason to insult them back.
Are you even aware of what you wrote????
What world do you live in????
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Where the hell do you see him say he was insulted?Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Vincent: I don't care if people insult you, that gives you no reason to insult them back.
Are you even aware of what you wrote????
What world do you live in????
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Man... I thought you said 'Banging things will happen, just wait' but now I re-read it after PS responded... hmmm... doesn't sound as neat and happy now.Bannings will happen, just wait. People have been given far too many warnings.
There is that stupid Fastseduction phrase: qualify. I think some metrosexual named TD developed that world and you musta picked it up. It's a weak phrase Marko...lose it.Originally posted by Don_Marko
Bro... to be honest I think you are smart and you are one of the best posters around here whose shyt I enjoy reading.
HOWEVER
You are right... I am a college kid only joined the debate without reading 5% of the sht you or anybody wrote in the flamewar. So why does that warrant a response? if it's flattery to qualify to me - thank you.
The Sparky
I straightened the writing out in my post. Go back and re-read it.Originally posted by xi phi pi
Where the hell do you see him say he was insulted?
Aren't mods chosen on partiality?Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Lastly are you not a new moderator. I seem to recall that you used to just be a poster and I think we may of exchanged a few words just like I mentioned above...is that true?
If so then I can see why your posting your message to me young man.
Allen really needs to ask older heads to moderate not younger ones. Why? Cause when you lose your impartiality especially over past slights...it shows your not mature enough for the job.
A moderator should only be keeping the peace and not taking sides. What I need to start doing is start copying these types of posts and whinning to Allen myself.
I'm sure as a adult and fellow business man he will understand my point of view backed up with evidence.
Now let's see what happens next Mr. Vincent.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
1. Then so be it let em all go if they can't be impartial. Thats actually not to hard to do. I do it everday at Pimphop.Originally posted by xi phi pi
Aren't mods chosen on partiality?
If you wanted to get rid of mods that seemed impartial, almost all would go, since they all get yelled at for being on someones side. Wasn't there a post earlier about eternal, diablo (Bishop) and you? Haven't there been past threads reaming mods out?
Mods are human (I think.) I congratulate them for doing a thankless job.
Going after Vincent because he's a new one is kinda weak. Even you have to admit that.
*Checks something* Apparently, nearly all the mods who posted thier age are under 25. Guess they are all too young, eh?
damn guys, wtf?
can't we all just get along? or, failing that, can't we all just bang some hoes?
dammit why am i even getting involved in this - this is not why im' here.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
"SERIOUSLY...THE LITTLE BLACK FAGGOT CAME ON HERE WITH SOME KIND OF COMPUTER GENERATED DUDE TALKINGOriginally posted by Aresx
damn guys, wtf?
can't we all just get along? or, failing that, can't we all just bang some hoes?
dammit why am i even getting involved in this - this is not why im' here.
Yep, that's a good enough reason. Whatever, i don't even follow that shyt, i'm just looking for knowledge, not to be popular or prove something to people that don't even know me. at least, we always have that litle "ignore user" option...Originally posted by Player_Supreme
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
1. I have JB Brains, Jake theSnake, And a host of others on ignore.Originally posted by Aresx
Yep, that's a good enough reason. Whatever, i don't even follow that shyt, i'm just looking for knowledge, not to be popular or prove something to people that don't even know me. at least, we always have that litle "ignore user" option...
Originally posted by Aresx
fukkin racist shyt - can't stand it.
Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Also why is it that some of the WB's on this site be havin family gatherings and shyt everytime I make a post.. Motha fawkas be havin hair oil from peacocking all over tha computer and shyt.
What they need to do is continue on drinkin their bud lights and and beatin off to them skinny hoes on those internet porn sites cause that is about as close to pvssy as they gone get, with their fawkin back street boy poster collecting, cone headed, cross eyed, handicap parking, drooling, stuttering, limp wristed, colon scoping, Rascal powerchair riding mothafawkin selves.! [/QOUTE]
What would you call this?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.