Where the hell do you see him say he was insulted?Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Vincent: I don't care if people insult you, that gives you no reason to insult them back.
Are you even aware of what you wrote????
What world do you live in????
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Where the hell do you see him say he was insulted?Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Vincent: I don't care if people insult you, that gives you no reason to insult them back.
Are you even aware of what you wrote????
What world do you live in????
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Man... I thought you said 'Banging things will happen, just wait' but now I re-read it after PS responded... hmmm... doesn't sound as neat and happy now.Bannings will happen, just wait. People have been given far too many warnings.
There is that stupid Fastseduction phrase: qualify. I think some metrosexual named TD developed that world and you musta picked it up. It's a weak phrase Marko...lose it.Originally posted by Don_Marko
Bro... to be honest I think you are smart and you are one of the best posters around here whose shyt I enjoy reading.
HOWEVER
You are right... I am a college kid only joined the debate without reading 5% of the sht you or anybody wrote in the flamewar. So why does that warrant a response? if it's flattery to qualify to me - thank you.
The Sparky
I straightened the writing out in my post. Go back and re-read it.Originally posted by xi phi pi
Where the hell do you see him say he was insulted?
Aren't mods chosen on partiality?Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Lastly are you not a new moderator. I seem to recall that you used to just be a poster and I think we may of exchanged a few words just like I mentioned above...is that true?
If so then I can see why your posting your message to me young man.
Allen really needs to ask older heads to moderate not younger ones. Why? Cause when you lose your impartiality especially over past slights...it shows your not mature enough for the job.
A moderator should only be keeping the peace and not taking sides. What I need to start doing is start copying these types of posts and whinning to Allen myself.
I'm sure as a adult and fellow business man he will understand my point of view backed up with evidence.
Now let's see what happens next Mr. Vincent.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
1. Then so be it let em all go if they can't be impartial. Thats actually not to hard to do. I do it everday at Pimphop.Originally posted by xi phi pi
Aren't mods chosen on partiality?
If you wanted to get rid of mods that seemed impartial, almost all would go, since they all get yelled at for being on someones side. Wasn't there a post earlier about eternal, diablo (Bishop) and you? Haven't there been past threads reaming mods out?
Mods are human (I think.) I congratulate them for doing a thankless job.
Going after Vincent because he's a new one is kinda weak. Even you have to admit that.
*Checks something* Apparently, nearly all the mods who posted thier age are under 25. Guess they are all too young, eh?
damn guys, wtf?
can't we all just get along? or, failing that, can't we all just bang some hoes?
dammit why am i even getting involved in this - this is not why im' here.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
"SERIOUSLY...THE LITTLE BLACK FAGGOT CAME ON HERE WITH SOME KIND OF COMPUTER GENERATED DUDE TALKINGOriginally posted by Aresx
damn guys, wtf?
can't we all just get along? or, failing that, can't we all just bang some hoes?
dammit why am i even getting involved in this - this is not why im' here.
Yep, that's a good enough reason. Whatever, i don't even follow that shyt, i'm just looking for knowledge, not to be popular or prove something to people that don't even know me. at least, we always have that litle "ignore user" option...Originally posted by Player_Supreme
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
1. I have JB Brains, Jake theSnake, And a host of others on ignore.Originally posted by Aresx
Yep, that's a good enough reason. Whatever, i don't even follow that shyt, i'm just looking for knowledge, not to be popular or prove something to people that don't even know me. at least, we always have that litle "ignore user" option...
Originally posted by Aresx
fukkin racist shyt - can't stand it.
Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Also why is it that some of the WB's on this site be havin family gatherings and shyt everytime I make a post.. Motha fawkas be havin hair oil from peacocking all over tha computer and shyt.
What they need to do is continue on drinkin their bud lights and and beatin off to them skinny hoes on those internet porn sites cause that is about as close to pvssy as they gone get, with their fawkin back street boy poster collecting, cone headed, cross eyed, handicap parking, drooling, stuttering, limp wristed, colon scoping, Rascal powerchair riding mothafawkin selves.! [/QOUTE]
What would you call this?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.