"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kid pics in POF

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Added a kid pic of me catching my very first fish I was maybe 5 and have an adult pic of me with a nice tuna I caught not too long ago on a charter. Got some nice interest and they all mentioned the kid pic saying they had to message me after seeing that. Wanted to share this little discovery with the forum, maybe it will help some of you out.

TL: DR - Chicks dig kid pics...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah man, thinking about it a bit I would imagine it helps women feel a little more comfortable about meeting a stranger online if they can see a little bit of your history in the pictures first. One of my bites after adding the pic was the cutest girl I have chatted with in months.
 

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I just added one too of my sister and I when I was about 6. Thanks for the idea.
 

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I'd love to hear if you guys noticed good results...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I made the change a day or two ago because things were getting a little dry. Even had a decent albeit older girl initiate contact last night. And two other cuties replied since then too. Before all I was getting was women about two notches under bar lol.
 

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Ever since I tweaked my profile (thanks to sgtsplackers advice) I pretty much always get responses.

What sucks is I have no money, and no car.

I have these opportunities but, I know its fine to be not rich. But its nice to at least have a car, and a little money.

I know for a fact some of these women are interested, but what am I going to say? "pick me up and buy me dinner".

That worked with my ex for like two years.

Well lucky my school refund is coming soon (and a fat one at that).

Any way chicks definatley dig the kid pics. They like cute stuff, and the good thing is that a kid pic is cute, but your a grown man so it's away to appeal to their desire for cute stuff, with out being cute and therefore dlv.
 

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noobolgy said:
Ever since I tweaked my profile (thanks to sgtsplackers advice) I pretty much always get responses.
Where can I find said advice?
 

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trent_afc said:
Where can I find said advice?
I was wondering the same thing.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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