"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kid pics in POF

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Added a kid pic of me catching my very first fish I was maybe 5 and have an adult pic of me with a nice tuna I caught not too long ago on a charter. Got some nice interest and they all mentioned the kid pic saying they had to message me after seeing that. Wanted to share this little discovery with the forum, maybe it will help some of you out.

TL: DR - Chicks dig kid pics...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah man, thinking about it a bit I would imagine it helps women feel a little more comfortable about meeting a stranger online if they can see a little bit of your history in the pictures first. One of my bites after adding the pic was the cutest girl I have chatted with in months.
 

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I just added one too of my sister and I when I was about 6. Thanks for the idea.
 

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I'd love to hear if you guys noticed good results...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I made the change a day or two ago because things were getting a little dry. Even had a decent albeit older girl initiate contact last night. And two other cuties replied since then too. Before all I was getting was women about two notches under bar lol.
 

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Ever since I tweaked my profile (thanks to sgtsplackers advice) I pretty much always get responses.

What sucks is I have no money, and no car.

I have these opportunities but, I know its fine to be not rich. But its nice to at least have a car, and a little money.

I know for a fact some of these women are interested, but what am I going to say? "pick me up and buy me dinner".

That worked with my ex for like two years.

Well lucky my school refund is coming soon (and a fat one at that).

Any way chicks definatley dig the kid pics. They like cute stuff, and the good thing is that a kid pic is cute, but your a grown man so it's away to appeal to their desire for cute stuff, with out being cute and therefore dlv.
 

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noobolgy said:
Ever since I tweaked my profile (thanks to sgtsplackers advice) I pretty much always get responses.
Where can I find said advice?
 

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trent_afc said:
Where can I find said advice?
I was wondering the same thing.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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