"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Kickboxing or Making money online?

Dan08

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Working some serious hours atm so I've got funds to invest.

I'm torn between taking up kickboxing (£300 for 3 gradings and 6 months of sessions I believe) or investing into an online venture (product creation in the IM/MMO Niche, £300 one-off fee. $1K return from coaching in 60 days or money back)

The way I see it, kickboxing can get me out of the house, meet new people, give me a drive and dedication that can only benefit me as well as get me fit with a good physique to boot, whilst the online venture can bring some serious return on my investment which could then in turn fund kickboxing further down the line.

I have the time to focus on both right now, but the funds to only truly back one fully.

The online venture is time sensitive atm, limited spaces etc. and whilst I've still got another 2 months work in me to make enough to cover both investments easily I doubt it'll be around by the time that happens.

So what do you suggest guys, kickboxing for personal growth, or online venture for monetary returns to then fund personal growth further down the line?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FairShake

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You can always try kickboxing later. Not as time sensitive as the online venture.

Hell, if it works out you can try BJJ too!
 

Bible_Belt

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£300 one-off fee. $1K return from coaching in 60 days or money back

That sounds like a scam. No business venture has guaranteed results, or else it would not be a venture. If this is some MLM crap, then save your money. It's a pyramid scheme ripoff. They all are.
 
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