"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kickboxing or Making money online?

Dan08

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Working some serious hours atm so I've got funds to invest.

I'm torn between taking up kickboxing (£300 for 3 gradings and 6 months of sessions I believe) or investing into an online venture (product creation in the IM/MMO Niche, £300 one-off fee. $1K return from coaching in 60 days or money back)

The way I see it, kickboxing can get me out of the house, meet new people, give me a drive and dedication that can only benefit me as well as get me fit with a good physique to boot, whilst the online venture can bring some serious return on my investment which could then in turn fund kickboxing further down the line.

I have the time to focus on both right now, but the funds to only truly back one fully.

The online venture is time sensitive atm, limited spaces etc. and whilst I've still got another 2 months work in me to make enough to cover both investments easily I doubt it'll be around by the time that happens.

So what do you suggest guys, kickboxing for personal growth, or online venture for monetary returns to then fund personal growth further down the line?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FairShake

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You can always try kickboxing later. Not as time sensitive as the online venture.

Hell, if it works out you can try BJJ too!
 

Bible_Belt

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£300 one-off fee. $1K return from coaching in 60 days or money back

That sounds like a scam. No business venture has guaranteed results, or else it would not be a venture. If this is some MLM crap, then save your money. It's a pyramid scheme ripoff. They all are.
 
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