"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Keys

LikRetsam

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Keys are all that matter to getting chicks.

Imagine chicks were locks and you were the key bearer. You approach a girl and this would be seen as discovering the lock. Once you are familiar with it, you can insert a key of your choice. Sometimes, this key will not fit and you will get point blank rejected. Some times the key will go in but will not turn and you will basically have an interrested chick that won't commit to you or do things with you. Then there are the times when the key fits and also unlocks the lock and you can claim your prize.

In DJing, it is important to remember that certain keys only work on certain locks and some keys work on more locks than others. If 1 key does not fit, try the next. It may go in, it may work and it may not. The point is knowing which key is best. Which key is suitable for this specific lock.

Ofcourse all things relevant... It's no coincidence "keys" fit the whole dating game so well with the whole male/female interaction thing eh? hehe :cool:

Each chick is a matter of finding out which key will unlock her. Do not let temporary obstacles stop you from trying the "right" key again some other time when the obstacle is gone.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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An interesting way of thinking of it...

Knowledge is best gained from experience, so anyone reading this should remember not to be afraid to try out new "keys," even if you don't know if they will fit.
 

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The only difference is that the lock doesn't remember the keys you already tried, the girl does. Try too many wrong keys, and you might as well start searching for a new lock. So observe the situation a bit first before starting anything.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Different girl require different strategies... I was DJing a chick flawlessly a few months back. She would never give in. After a few weeks I decided to go AFC on her. On her knees in no time.
 

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Different girl require different strategies... I was DJing a chick flawlessly a few months back. She would never give in. After a few weeks I decided to go AFC on her. On her knees in no time.
By going AFC on her, I assume you mean flowers, ass kissing, etc? And you're sayin you got her into bed with this?
 
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