"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Keys are all that matter to getting chicks.

Imagine chicks were locks and you were the key bearer. You approach a girl and this would be seen as discovering the lock. Once you are familiar with it, you can insert a key of your choice. Sometimes, this key will not fit and you will get point blank rejected. Some times the key will go in but will not turn and you will basically have an interrested chick that won't commit to you or do things with you. Then there are the times when the key fits and also unlocks the lock and you can claim your prize.

In DJing, it is important to remember that certain keys only work on certain locks and some keys work on more locks than others. If 1 key does not fit, try the next. It may go in, it may work and it may not. The point is knowing which key is best. Which key is suitable for this specific lock.

Ofcourse all things relevant... It's no coincidence "keys" fit the whole dating game so well with the whole male/female interaction thing eh? hehe :cool:

Each chick is a matter of finding out which key will unlock her. Do not let temporary obstacles stop you from trying the "right" key again some other time when the obstacle is gone.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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An interesting way of thinking of it...

Knowledge is best gained from experience, so anyone reading this should remember not to be afraid to try out new "keys," even if you don't know if they will fit.
 
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The only difference is that the lock doesn't remember the keys you already tried, the girl does. Try too many wrong keys, and you might as well start searching for a new lock. So observe the situation a bit first before starting anything.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Different girl require different strategies... I was DJing a chick flawlessly a few months back. She would never give in. After a few weeks I decided to go AFC on her. On her knees in no time.
 
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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Different girl require different strategies... I was DJing a chick flawlessly a few months back. She would never give in. After a few weeks I decided to go AFC on her. On her knees in no time.
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By going AFC on her, I assume you mean flowers, ass kissing, etc? And you're sayin you got her into bed with this?
 
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