"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Keys

LikRetsam

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Keys are all that matter to getting chicks.

Imagine chicks were locks and you were the key bearer. You approach a girl and this would be seen as discovering the lock. Once you are familiar with it, you can insert a key of your choice. Sometimes, this key will not fit and you will get point blank rejected. Some times the key will go in but will not turn and you will basically have an interrested chick that won't commit to you or do things with you. Then there are the times when the key fits and also unlocks the lock and you can claim your prize.

In DJing, it is important to remember that certain keys only work on certain locks and some keys work on more locks than others. If 1 key does not fit, try the next. It may go in, it may work and it may not. The point is knowing which key is best. Which key is suitable for this specific lock.

Ofcourse all things relevant... It's no coincidence "keys" fit the whole dating game so well with the whole male/female interaction thing eh? hehe :cool:

Each chick is a matter of finding out which key will unlock her. Do not let temporary obstacles stop you from trying the "right" key again some other time when the obstacle is gone.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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An interesting way of thinking of it...

Knowledge is best gained from experience, so anyone reading this should remember not to be afraid to try out new "keys," even if you don't know if they will fit.
 

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The only difference is that the lock doesn't remember the keys you already tried, the girl does. Try too many wrong keys, and you might as well start searching for a new lock. So observe the situation a bit first before starting anything.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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LikRetsam

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Different girl require different strategies... I was DJing a chick flawlessly a few months back. She would never give in. After a few weeks I decided to go AFC on her. On her knees in no time.
 

Wonderbread166

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Different girl require different strategies... I was DJing a chick flawlessly a few months back. She would never give in. After a few weeks I decided to go AFC on her. On her knees in no time.
By going AFC on her, I assume you mean flowers, ass kissing, etc? And you're sayin you got her into bed with this?
 
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