"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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never heard of this show bro, and neither has anyone else on these forums :)
 

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nice
thanks for the links
something to watch before clubbing tomorrow
 

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Sweet. In Episode 12, isn't that guy at the end Mystery doing a cameo?
 

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What do you guys get out of these episodes? I've seen earlier ones on YouTube. They're fun. But, how to improve game based on what's see?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hilarious, especially episode 12 lol. I think what makes the show good is the 4 commentators. They have great chemistry and are always laughing and cracking jokes.
 

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What do you guys get out of these episodes? I've seen earlier ones on YouTube. They're fun. But, how to improve game based on what's see?
Actually, this is the exact opposite of Key Board Jockeying. This is a no BS-zone. This is just guys attracting girls, right there, seeing what works, not in some argument in a forum, but for real. Hell, this is more relavant and useful than most of the Book of Pook.
 

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This show is absolutely awesome. I love it.

Watch Episode #1 - you won't be disappointed.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bpmop6Np3xg&mode=related&search= (part 1)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=idDX0GHLUEQ&mode=related&search= (part 2)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F5poaKkzpZg&mode=related&search= (part 3)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UYgMCbY3qx8&mode=related&search= (part 4)

Haha part 3 is the bomb....the first guy insulting the shoes. The chicks like...

"He gave enough compliments to cover the insults..."
Marc "See she knows what I'm talking about, she knows what I'm talking about. *pointing to the other girls shoe* See like, I don't really like those shoes either."

Haha good sh*t.
 

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I have seen all of them since the beginning and all I can say that there are episodes from which you can learn and episodes that don't teach **** but you can laugh you ass off at them.
 

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who's that Guy at the end of the 12th episode?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is an amazing show because it seems to be real.... I for one learned a little on what to do and what not to do. If anyone can find more episodes let me know.
 

Phyzzle

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who's that Guy at the end of the 12th episode?
Mystery (famous pick up artist? Ring any bells?)
 

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You mean the guy in the green shirt who "won" the episode was Mystery?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The guy in the green shirt at the end who "won", is NOT Mystery...
Huh, well the sallow, overpartied face with goatee had me convinced.

So who the hell are people talking about?
Guy who devotes his career to running workshops teaching guys to pickup women, mainly in night clubs and mainly with pre-made material. Fairly famous. There's like a whole industry out there, the "PUA community". I'll check it out if I ever move to a big city.
 

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LAMEST pick up lines, ugliest guys and ugliest girls I have ever seen on a TV show...
 

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The guy who won actually commented on VIDEO CLIP #3 on youtube.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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