"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Keys to the VIP season 2

It's great! Haven't seen it all yet. Although I'm hoping to see more "normal" guys, and not someone with extra-ordinary talents, like the magician and the stripper and stuff.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SamePendo said:
Keys to the VIP season 2

It's great! Haven't seen it all yet. Although I'm hoping to see more "normal" guys, and not someone with extra-ordinary talents, like the magician and the stripper and stuff.
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This show kicks ass . I found it very inspirational . Great show :D . Highly recomaned to watch !
 
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I like the show. Yeah, it's contrived, but I find it entertaining on a very shallow level. There are some great examples of how looks DO NOT MATTER. Case in point with Cajun. Straight up looks like a chi-mo. The second season had some great battles and fantastic examples of both natural game and textbook game. I don't know, I like it. I would like to see some day approaches in venues other than a club, though.
 
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I'm quite shocked how most of the guys on that show have 0 game.

Really, they have no idea what they are doing. All they have is their looks and nothing else. Me and a few guys on here would dominate those guys on that show...
 
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I'm quite shocked how most of the guys on that show have 0 game.

Really, they have no idea what they are doing. All they have is their looks and nothing else. Me and a few guys on here would dominate those guys on that show...
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Yeah. I don't know if you remember Kyle from first season. The guy had the personality of a toilet seat, but he had the looks. There were some serious failures in the first season. I'm sorry, but if you go on a show like this where you your game is scrutinized and and sometimes ridiculed, you better have game. Period.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Magma said:
Yeah. I don't know if you remember Kyle from first season. The guy had the personality of a toilet seat, but he had the looks. There were some serious failures in the first season. I'm sorry, but if you go on a show like this where you your game is scrutinized and and sometimes ridiculed, you better have game. Period.
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I have to disagree here.

Kyle had lots of game. Inner game that is. I believe PU is 100% inner game.

He was good looking, but he also had great body language and exuded masculinity, confidence and sexuality.

My game is actually very similar to his game.
 
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ChrizZ said:
I have to disagree here.

Kyle had lots of game. Inner game that is. I believe PU is 100% inner game.

He was good looking, but he also had great body language and exuded masculinity, confidence and sexuality.

My game is actually very similar to his game.
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Don't get me wrong. Kyle had tight game for sure. He focused on his strengths (physique/looks) and ignored his weaknesses (he wasn't the brightest light bulb). But there were some guys on that first season where it was actually embarrasing to watch them, almost like looking at a bad car accident. Like that guy who did pushups on the ground right before he approached. WTF was that? Not only did he have no game, he had negative game. I really like the guys though that are very cerebral in their approaches, mainly because that is what I identify with. But what I really liked about Kyle was that he and the the other guy respected each other's game, a point that was highlighted by Allen and the boys.
 
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this thread shows us why that show was made for virgin boys. average age for viewership must be 15. that is about the average age of a guy who would fall for mystery's crap. one last time: it is ****ing tv!

there was a thread already about how the "guests" on that show were all actors. they all had managers. it is entertainment, not real life.
 
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this thread shows us why that show was made for virgin boys. average age for viewership must be 15. that is about the average age of a guy who would fall for mystery's crap. one last time: it is ****ing tv!

there was a thread already about how the "guests" on that show were all actors. they all had managers. it is entertainment, not real life.
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The guests on this show aren;t actors. The approaches are real. What i have heard however, is that some of the guys on the show tell there friends (girls) to show up to the bar so they can hit on them and win.

And a lot of people find the show very entertaining, not just virgin boys.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I read somewhere that the girls at the club know that they're gonna be on a TV show and that guys will approach them (makes sense since they need to sign a release form - I've done that a few times when TV crews filmed our dancing). That takes a lot out of it.

Anyway, why watch such a TV show with such cheating possibilities when you can head out into the real field and see it for yourself?
 
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Jitterbug said:
I read somewhere that the girls at the club know that they're gonna be on a TV show and that guys will approach them (makes sense since they need to sign a release form - I've done that a few times when TV crews filmed our dancing). That takes a lot out of it.

Anyway, why watch such a TV show with such cheating possibilities when you can head out into the real field and see it for yourself?
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No thats wrong. I'm pretty sure they film them without consent, and after all the shooting is done, if they decide to air a scene with a girl in it they will ask that particular girl to sign the consent form, otherwise they blur their faces. Thats why sometimes some of the girls/other randoms faces are blurred.
 
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Kyle might have had game, But no one was a match for THE GREEN GOBLIN. He was homeless, jobless, and fugly, yet everything that happen'd in the club somehow meshed with his attack.
 
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Kyle might have had game, But no one was a match for THE GREEN GOBLIN. He was homeless, jobless, and fugly, yet everything that happen'd in the club somehow meshed with his attack.
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Season 1, i definitely have to agree man. Phil the Cobra Commander was the best hands down!

Season 2 had much better players. Kenan is def one of the best in that season, as well as the australian guy. But Cajun was the best in the show's history.

Cajun and Phil should battle. But I'd have to give the edge to Cajun, as he is an actual dating instructor.
 
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