I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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The truth is such and through its own nature, i only served as a communication transport device for it... You can deny it even resist it. But in the end.. You shall live it..L777 said:?
Did you watch the video?
The guy is short(ish) and very average looking. He just has good style and great game.
Stop posting in bold as if you're posting some deep and meaningful ultimate truth that you have come up with.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Well it is much easier to talk about typeface characteristics than "Proof that looks dont matter" right!?antidonjuan said:
Whatever. Its just you come across as arrogant because you state your opinion as a cast iron fact. What about the girls that f.uck guys solely on their personality? (Believe it or not they do exist - you just have to go to the right places - hint: not Greek Town), what about 26 year olds? What about girls that like bodybuilders regardless of their face....or even the PUAs who's game makes up for their appearance?DonGorgon said:
Also notice in the interview he said that the part that he was glad that they edited was when he had to recover after being a **** and giving a neg. Afterward he said that it wasn't his style. Too many guys depend on negging because they're lacking in other areas. Negging isn't necessary in a normal pickup.Prodigy746 said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Well, I'm sure he has game and maybe he's average to you, but he has style and it makes him fairly decent looking.ChrizZ said:
http://www.thesuperficial.com/images/2006/06/james-blunt-petra-nemcova-boujis-02.jpgJitterbug said:
I agree, but there are a lot of times negging can make your life a hell of a lot easier. I only really resort to negging in situations where I have low social proof.Francisco d'Anconia said:
Holy Canada!!! Is that Steve Nash?ChrizZ said:
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.