"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Keys to the VIP (MM version)

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This has been posted on the general discussion board before, but I like this show, and I thought I'd let it be known to you guys. It's a game of competitive cold approaches in night clubs.

The whole list is here
http://youtube.com/profile_videos?p=r&user=TigerAFC2PUA&page=1


There's a lot of them, but here are the top picks from my point of view.

Here's the best of the best: professional pick up artist Cajun, a protégé of the Tyler-Durden/Mystery school of thought. Vs. his protege. Pure genius.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=KLauANa0930&feature=related

Here is a controversial showdown between a muscular, direct alpha male type and a skinny, hook-nosed dork who does MAGIC TRICKS.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=IpftgP4x_AU

And this is how I would picture our resident potato in this game: a good-looking, sweet, understanding guy, who looks deeply into a woman’s eyes and appreciates her as a person. He’s up against a high energy ****y goofball.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=socfN7vDk7Y&feature=related


And these guys are horrible,
http://youtube.com/watch?v=fqcAON8Z4WQ

But I would say the most awkward episode is this one,
http://youtube.com/watch?v=RdLxXj9Q5SI

Also, these guys were pretty good:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=XTj8y5cTLFQ
Not bad here:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=qqJ9Ia5jVgw&feature=related
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Oh, and the parts 2, 3, and 4 should be easy to find. If not, find them on the big list, and realize that there are two different seasons.
 

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Lol, the commentators at that show don`t now what they are talking about. But the show is great
 

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After watching these shows I have come to realize that these shows are phony. These people on these shows are actors. I have been clubbing over 1000 times in my life at least and I could tell you that this show is for the most part is phony. If you don't believe me than go to a few nightclubs and you will see what I am talking about.
 

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lookyoung said:
After watching these shows I have come to realize that these shows are phony. These people on these shows are actors. I have been clubbing over 1000 times in my life at least and I could tell you that this show is for the most part is phony. If you don't believe me than go to a few nightclubs and you will see what I am talking about.
Can you go into detail? It looks basically real to me because a lot of the events were just too awkward to be staged and because some of the faces are blurred out, which shouldn't be necessary if they were all hired in advance.

The only thing that seems weird to me is how quiet the clubs are. But in large cities, you can find some semi-quiet clubs. Although, I wonder if some guys found out where the show was going to be, and just told their female friends to go there and lay low.

I remember seeing a cold approach video in Australia posted on this forum where they guy walked up to two girls and said, "Can I talk to you for a second? Just for a second?" Eventually, she turned to her friend and said, "I'll be right back."

. . . found it: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=14809

Now that's pretty obviously fake, and people did point it out. But in Keys to the VIP, women will sometime physically jerk their friend and away say "No! You can't talk to her! I need her!" That's how women act.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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