"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Keys to the VIP (MM version)

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This has been posted on the general discussion board before, but I like this show, and I thought I'd let it be known to you guys. It's a game of competitive cold approaches in night clubs.

The whole list is here
http://youtube.com/profile_videos?p=r&user=TigerAFC2PUA&page=1


There's a lot of them, but here are the top picks from my point of view.

Here's the best of the best: professional pick up artist Cajun, a protégé of the Tyler-Durden/Mystery school of thought. Vs. his protege. Pure genius.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=KLauANa0930&feature=related

Here is a controversial showdown between a muscular, direct alpha male type and a skinny, hook-nosed dork who does MAGIC TRICKS.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=IpftgP4x_AU

And this is how I would picture our resident potato in this game: a good-looking, sweet, understanding guy, who looks deeply into a woman’s eyes and appreciates her as a person. He’s up against a high energy ****y goofball.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=socfN7vDk7Y&feature=related


And these guys are horrible,
http://youtube.com/watch?v=fqcAON8Z4WQ

But I would say the most awkward episode is this one,
http://youtube.com/watch?v=RdLxXj9Q5SI

Also, these guys were pretty good:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=XTj8y5cTLFQ
Not bad here:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=qqJ9Ia5jVgw&feature=related
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oh, and the parts 2, 3, and 4 should be easy to find. If not, find them on the big list, and realize that there are two different seasons.
 

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Lol, the commentators at that show don`t now what they are talking about. But the show is great
 

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After watching these shows I have come to realize that these shows are phony. These people on these shows are actors. I have been clubbing over 1000 times in my life at least and I could tell you that this show is for the most part is phony. If you don't believe me than go to a few nightclubs and you will see what I am talking about.
 

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lookyoung said:
After watching these shows I have come to realize that these shows are phony. These people on these shows are actors. I have been clubbing over 1000 times in my life at least and I could tell you that this show is for the most part is phony. If you don't believe me than go to a few nightclubs and you will see what I am talking about.
Can you go into detail? It looks basically real to me because a lot of the events were just too awkward to be staged and because some of the faces are blurred out, which shouldn't be necessary if they were all hired in advance.

The only thing that seems weird to me is how quiet the clubs are. But in large cities, you can find some semi-quiet clubs. Although, I wonder if some guys found out where the show was going to be, and just told their female friends to go there and lay low.

I remember seeing a cold approach video in Australia posted on this forum where they guy walked up to two girls and said, "Can I talk to you for a second? Just for a second?" Eventually, she turned to her friend and said, "I'll be right back."

. . . found it: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=14809

Now that's pretty obviously fake, and people did point it out. But in Keys to the VIP, women will sometime physically jerk their friend and away say "No! You can't talk to her! I need her!" That's how women act.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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