Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Kettle Bell Torture!!!

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Does anyone else here work out with kettlebells? I just started today, and I'm already in very good shape and have a ton of endurance, but kettlebells kicked my ass today. 45 or so minutes of kettlebelling made me almost as sore as 1 hour of weightlifting and 1 hour of the obstacle course (which involves various different movements, and has bear crawls, crabwalks, pushups, situps, jump-squats and wall climbs thrown in for added torture). The only two workouts I did were 5 sets of 1 1/2 pood(or about 54 pounds) KB swings (10 with both hands, 5 with left, 5 with right) and push+rows (take two 1 1/2 pood KBs, do a pushup on them, then balance yourself on one one KB and raise the other up to your chest, then do the same with the other side), then do 2 of each, 3 of each, etc. I got to 7 each, but with breaks in between.

For those who don't know what a KB looks like, it resembles a cannonball with a handle. The weights are 18, 36, 54 and 72 pounds per kettlebell, with each 18 pounds being 1/2 pood (pronounced "pod"). If you don't have KBs or know a gym that does, use dumbbells and do the same workouts, but they're not as unwieldy as kettlebells, so you get only about 80% of the workout.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Eltosian

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Originally posted by Rusty Metal Up Yours:
Does anyone else here work out with kettlebells? I just started today, and I'm already in very good shape and have a ton of endurance, but kettlebells kicked my ass today. 45 or so minutes of kettlebelling made me almost as sore as 1 hour of weightlifting and 1 hour of the obstacle course (which involves various different movements, and has bear crawls, crabwalks, pushups, situps, jump-squats and wall climbs thrown in for added torture). The only two workouts I did were 5 sets of 1 1/2 pood(or about 54 pounds) KB swings (10 with both hands, 5 with left, 5 with right) and push+rows (take two 1 1/2 pood KBs, do a pushup on them, then balance yourself on one one KB and raise the other up to your chest, then do the same with the other side), then do 2 of each, 3 of each, etc. I got to 7 each, but with breaks in between.
Yeah. I have all the standard kettlebells sizes. (1, 1.5 and 2 Pood.)

Right now, I work solely with kettlebells. I am planning to do high-rep snatches and clean and jerks twice a week for anaerobic/strength-endurance, GPP and the cardiovascular benefits. Two other days I plan to work lower-rep, more strength oriented. I shall also do sprinting once a week to keep up my speed for football next year.

I'm sure you know, but your coach likes to have his Oly lifters do kettlebells 2x a week and and the Oly lifts 3x a week.

BTW, which sizes do you have?

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Where can I obtain these things?

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"Chivalry isn't dead; it just smells AFC." - Tryin to Grow a Chin
 

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Originally posted by Tryin to Grow a Chin:
Where can I obtain these things?
Dragondoor.com

You might want to get The Russian Kettlebell Challenge book first, and try the moves with dumbells before buying kettlebells.
 

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Do you go to DDoor's boards too? Yeah, Coach Burgener has Oly Lifters, PM Kettle Bell Torture!!" written on the whiteboard in the weight room at my school.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Rusty Metal Up Yours:
Do you go to DDoor's boards too?
I read them quite often, but I don't post. Actually, I did post a couple times, but I don't like the fact that my IP address is posted for everyone to see, so I stopped posting.

And you are RustyMetal @ Dragondoor, I presume.
 

DJ Girevik

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I'm Metalhead there. I have less than 10 posts there.
 

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Originally posted by Rusty Metal Up Yours:
I'm Metalhead there. I have less than 10 posts there.
That's what I meant (not Rustymetal)! Saw some of your posts there.
 
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