"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kettle Bell Torture!!!

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Does anyone else here work out with kettlebells? I just started today, and I'm already in very good shape and have a ton of endurance, but kettlebells kicked my ass today. 45 or so minutes of kettlebelling made me almost as sore as 1 hour of weightlifting and 1 hour of the obstacle course (which involves various different movements, and has bear crawls, crabwalks, pushups, situps, jump-squats and wall climbs thrown in for added torture). The only two workouts I did were 5 sets of 1 1/2 pood(or about 54 pounds) KB swings (10 with both hands, 5 with left, 5 with right) and push+rows (take two 1 1/2 pood KBs, do a pushup on them, then balance yourself on one one KB and raise the other up to your chest, then do the same with the other side), then do 2 of each, 3 of each, etc. I got to 7 each, but with breaks in between.

For those who don't know what a KB looks like, it resembles a cannonball with a handle. The weights are 18, 36, 54 and 72 pounds per kettlebell, with each 18 pounds being 1/2 pood (pronounced "pod"). If you don't have KBs or know a gym that does, use dumbbells and do the same workouts, but they're not as unwieldy as kettlebells, so you get only about 80% of the workout.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eltosian

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Originally posted by Rusty Metal Up Yours:
Does anyone else here work out with kettlebells? I just started today, and I'm already in very good shape and have a ton of endurance, but kettlebells kicked my ass today. 45 or so minutes of kettlebelling made me almost as sore as 1 hour of weightlifting and 1 hour of the obstacle course (which involves various different movements, and has bear crawls, crabwalks, pushups, situps, jump-squats and wall climbs thrown in for added torture). The only two workouts I did were 5 sets of 1 1/2 pood(or about 54 pounds) KB swings (10 with both hands, 5 with left, 5 with right) and push+rows (take two 1 1/2 pood KBs, do a pushup on them, then balance yourself on one one KB and raise the other up to your chest, then do the same with the other side), then do 2 of each, 3 of each, etc. I got to 7 each, but with breaks in between.
Yeah. I have all the standard kettlebells sizes. (1, 1.5 and 2 Pood.)

Right now, I work solely with kettlebells. I am planning to do high-rep snatches and clean and jerks twice a week for anaerobic/strength-endurance, GPP and the cardiovascular benefits. Two other days I plan to work lower-rep, more strength oriented. I shall also do sprinting once a week to keep up my speed for football next year.

I'm sure you know, but your coach likes to have his Oly lifters do kettlebells 2x a week and and the Oly lifts 3x a week.

BTW, which sizes do you have?

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Where can I obtain these things?

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"Chivalry isn't dead; it just smells AFC." - Tryin to Grow a Chin
 

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Originally posted by Tryin to Grow a Chin:
Where can I obtain these things?
Dragondoor.com

You might want to get The Russian Kettlebell Challenge book first, and try the moves with dumbells before buying kettlebells.
 

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Do you go to DDoor's boards too? Yeah, Coach Burgener has Oly Lifters, PM Kettle Bell Torture!!" written on the whiteboard in the weight room at my school.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Eltosian

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Originally posted by Rusty Metal Up Yours:
Do you go to DDoor's boards too?
I read them quite often, but I don't post. Actually, I did post a couple times, but I don't like the fact that my IP address is posted for everyone to see, so I stopped posting.

And you are RustyMetal @ Dragondoor, I presume.
 

DJ Girevik

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I'm Metalhead there. I have less than 10 posts there.
 

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Originally posted by Rusty Metal Up Yours:
I'm Metalhead there. I have less than 10 posts there.
That's what I meant (not Rustymetal)! Saw some of your posts there.
 
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