"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ken Dolls

Desdinova

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A few weeks back, me and my gf went toy shopping. No, not THAT kind of toy shopping!!! :nono:

She wanted to browse the Barbie section for the hell of it, so I said sure. We were both blown away at the line of Ken dolls. Are these supposed to be a reflection of society, or are they supposed to be what women consider the 'ideal man'? Take a look for yourself:

http://shop.mattel.com/search/controller.jsp?kw=ken doll

They all look gay. Why isn't Ken masculine?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you have to take in to account the target audience, little girls.

They would probably be drawn more towards the cute, little boyish bieber look than the vin diesel, i'll crack you in the jaw look.
 

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fashion and design is heavily dominated by gay men..it is no surprise that their influence can be clearly seen
 

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ha ha..
When my now ex-wife would go clothes shopping for me, I'd respond by calling myself "Ken."
 

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Desdinova said:
A few weeks back, me and my gf went toy shopping. No, not THAT kind of toy shopping!!! :nono:

She wanted to browse the Barbie section for the hell of it, so I said sure. We were both blown away at the line of Ken dolls. Are these supposed to be a reflection of society, or are they supposed to be what women consider the 'ideal man'? Take a look for yourself:

http://shop.mattel.com/search/controller.jsp?kw=ken doll

They all look gay. Why isn't Ken masculine?
Is this a mere coincidence?
http://www.zimbio.com/pictures/7toe...ney+Channel+High+School/M2MylbRJ_Ou/Zac+Efron

I know they are kids, but wtf is that hair cut???
http://images.buddytv.com/articles/Image/dylan-cole-sprouse.jpg
 

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Espi said:
I agree.
Just keep it g-rated with a feminist bent.
Yep its the world we live in these days. Don't offend anybody!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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