"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ken Dolls

Desdinova

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A few weeks back, me and my gf went toy shopping. No, not THAT kind of toy shopping!!! :nono:

She wanted to browse the Barbie section for the hell of it, so I said sure. We were both blown away at the line of Ken dolls. Are these supposed to be a reflection of society, or are they supposed to be what women consider the 'ideal man'? Take a look for yourself:

http://shop.mattel.com/search/controller.jsp?kw=ken doll

They all look gay. Why isn't Ken masculine?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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st_99

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you have to take in to account the target audience, little girls.

They would probably be drawn more towards the cute, little boyish bieber look than the vin diesel, i'll crack you in the jaw look.
 

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fashion and design is heavily dominated by gay men..it is no surprise that their influence can be clearly seen
 

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BobMo'

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ha ha..
When my now ex-wife would go clothes shopping for me, I'd respond by calling myself "Ken."
 

Blue Phoenix

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Desdinova said:
A few weeks back, me and my gf went toy shopping. No, not THAT kind of toy shopping!!! :nono:

She wanted to browse the Barbie section for the hell of it, so I said sure. We were both blown away at the line of Ken dolls. Are these supposed to be a reflection of society, or are they supposed to be what women consider the 'ideal man'? Take a look for yourself:

http://shop.mattel.com/search/controller.jsp?kw=ken doll

They all look gay. Why isn't Ken masculine?
Is this a mere coincidence?
http://www.zimbio.com/pictures/7toe...ney+Channel+High+School/M2MylbRJ_Ou/Zac+Efron

I know they are kids, but wtf is that hair cut???
http://images.buddytv.com/articles/Image/dylan-cole-sprouse.jpg
 

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Espi said:
I agree.
Just keep it g-rated with a feminist bent.
Yep its the world we live in these days. Don't offend anybody!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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