"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Okay so that oneitis feeling is fading away, your mind is coming to ground level and then suddenly like a ton of bricks WAM! your oneitis comes back into the picture and starts talking to you again. Has anyone had this happen? I f-closed this chick gave me the LJBF with some slight resistance said okay and was on my way. I agreed that we shouldn't hook up anymore and she got a little pissy with me (haha)
Stopped using AIM for a few weeks but recently I've been using it again. She instant messages me everyday to see what I've been up to. I think it's kind of funny how girls especially ones that know you like them try to keep you in the picture slightly.
Whenever I talk to her I keep it short and act completely indifferent and she keeps coming back for more everyday. It's not even like i'm supplicating or anything. If I see her out and I don't say hey to her i'll hear about it on AIM the next day guaranteed. If i blocked her i definitely see her as the type to hunt me down after a couple weeks/months of know contact. I'm doing my best to get this girl out of my head but just when you think they're gone they always pop back into the picture. In no way am i trying to get back with this girl because i know trying to get back together with a oneitis is futile. If it happened to happen then so be it, but i'm not trying. Maybe this chick is just an internet attention wh0re LOL.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls don't like to lose.

You caused her to lose. Her winning is to have a friendship with you. Do you want to lose to her?

Drop her if you don't want to lose, because she's winning right now in being friends with you, even if you think nothing will happen.
 
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Sosymp.

Invest heavily in TD bootcamps.

Decircumcise to increase feelings of courage.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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