jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
I’d like to share my perspective on how social media, especially when it comes to dealing with women, can often have a negative impact. Social media can be useful if you use it as a personal “showcase”, a way to present an image of yourself.
Maybe you’re a rapper and you share your music, or a personal trainer showing your workouts.
That said, and speaking from personal experience, we should not use social media about or with women.
Women often use social media mainly to express their emotional states or whatever they’re feeling in the moment.
Talking to a woman about her “relationship problems” on social media doesn’t really teach you anything, it’s just an echo of her actions, not a real experience.
If you think you can attract a woman online during one of those emotional moments, yes, you could, there are plenty of opportunities. But keep in mind that if she uses social media that way with you, she’s likely to do the same later on, just with another man. Knowing that in advance can save you a lot of time.
The women who are grounded and serious are out there, but they tend to use social media very little, which is exactly why they’re harder to find. So, to all the men who are pursuing real goals in life: social media should be kept in perspective. Use it like your personal portfolio, a collection of your photos and experiences, nothing more.
I don’t like posts, I don’t comment, I don’t watch stories, and I don’t scroll through other people’s stuff. None of that.
But I still want to be part of the modern, digital world we live in, and to keep my own “showcase” up to date, just to stay in step with the times I personally developed a one time a year post with 5 of my favourite pictures of the year.
This can save you so much guys!
Don't believe you need a "x" count of followers to become a man of status.
You need "confidence" and "real" stuff going on in your life.
That's the only hook and healthy thing you can do daily to your life
Maybe you’re a rapper and you share your music, or a personal trainer showing your workouts.
That said, and speaking from personal experience, we should not use social media about or with women.
Women often use social media mainly to express their emotional states or whatever they’re feeling in the moment.
Talking to a woman about her “relationship problems” on social media doesn’t really teach you anything, it’s just an echo of her actions, not a real experience.
If you think you can attract a woman online during one of those emotional moments, yes, you could, there are plenty of opportunities. But keep in mind that if she uses social media that way with you, she’s likely to do the same later on, just with another man. Knowing that in advance can save you a lot of time.
The women who are grounded and serious are out there, but they tend to use social media very little, which is exactly why they’re harder to find. So, to all the men who are pursuing real goals in life: social media should be kept in perspective. Use it like your personal portfolio, a collection of your photos and experiences, nothing more.
I don’t like posts, I don’t comment, I don’t watch stories, and I don’t scroll through other people’s stuff. None of that.
But I still want to be part of the modern, digital world we live in, and to keep my own “showcase” up to date, just to stay in step with the times I personally developed a one time a year post with 5 of my favourite pictures of the year.
This can save you so much guys!
Don't believe you need a "x" count of followers to become a man of status.
You need "confidence" and "real" stuff going on in your life.
That's the only hook and healthy thing you can do daily to your life