By keeping your love life private, you can gauge the interest level of a girl. Let me explain.
Say you set up a casual get together with a girl. As often is the case, you aren't sure if it's a date or not, or how much she actually likes you. You go on the "date", kino her a little, have a good time, and that's it.
You really aren't sure where you stand with this girl. Now, a quick and easy enough way to find out is to not tell anybody about the "date." If this girl is a normal highschool girl with normal highschool friends, anything that she tells them will eventually get back to you. So, when you go into school the next day, the number of people who mention the date to you can be a good indicator of how excited she was to see you.
Think about it like this: would you call up your best friend to let them know you're hanging out with the fat chick from middle school? Nope.
Would you call up your best friend to let them know you got a date with the hot girl from science class? Yep. Would you then talk to some other people about it when you saw them? Yuh-huh. At least, girls will.
Yes, I have tried this. I went out with a girl this weekend, and besides the fact that she nearly raped me the weekend before, when I went into school I was harrangued by not only her best friend, but also our mutual friends who I hadn't told.
Say you set up a casual get together with a girl. As often is the case, you aren't sure if it's a date or not, or how much she actually likes you. You go on the "date", kino her a little, have a good time, and that's it.
You really aren't sure where you stand with this girl. Now, a quick and easy enough way to find out is to not tell anybody about the "date." If this girl is a normal highschool girl with normal highschool friends, anything that she tells them will eventually get back to you. So, when you go into school the next day, the number of people who mention the date to you can be a good indicator of how excited she was to see you.
Think about it like this: would you call up your best friend to let them know you're hanging out with the fat chick from middle school? Nope.
Would you call up your best friend to let them know you got a date with the hot girl from science class? Yep. Would you then talk to some other people about it when you saw them? Yuh-huh. At least, girls will.
Yes, I have tried this. I went out with a girl this weekend, and besides the fact that she nearly raped me the weekend before, when I went into school I was harrangued by not only her best friend, but also our mutual friends who I hadn't told.
