"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Keeping things interesting with a woman you can't meet for a while...

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Been talking to this girl over blackberry messenger that I just briefly met in London, she studies here, and we've been talking quite a bit for the last month or so, she's been back home (abroad) and is not back in London until June.
Things been going pretty well, she seems quite interested. I've tried to step things up a few times, she seems to enjoy it, but a bit of a prude... So not that much luck their esp. being that its over the phone...
So convo. is sort of drying up, which seems a shame because am getting a lot of hints that she likes me, I just don't really know what to talk about, and I need to keep things interesting until June!
Any ideas?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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