"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Keeping things interesting with a woman you can't meet for a while...

styleman

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Been talking to this girl over blackberry messenger that I just briefly met in London, she studies here, and we've been talking quite a bit for the last month or so, she's been back home (abroad) and is not back in London until June.
Things been going pretty well, she seems quite interested. I've tried to step things up a few times, she seems to enjoy it, but a bit of a prude... So not that much luck their esp. being that its over the phone...
So convo. is sort of drying up, which seems a shame because am getting a lot of hints that she likes me, I just don't really know what to talk about, and I need to keep things interesting until June!
Any ideas?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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