"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Keeping the convo going

heater528

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Hey can i get some advice on keeping conversations going with woman, maybe ive been talking to shy ones lately but last night for example some girl came up and told me her friend was into me, so i figured what the hell might as well say hi. I went up to this girls friend and was like "Hey how are you? she looks at me stone face and was like good ! so i smiled and said thats good so where you from, what do you do, mentioned the nfc payoff games and everytime i got the same type of one-3 worded response, So my friend came over and me and him started talking... at that time the girl went back to her table.... her friend came over and was like go talk to her again she doesnt know what to say to you !???? at this time im thinking what the hell can i say to her ? I dunno if she was shy or what but it was awkward and i just decided to up and leave the bar so i could get some sleep! Any advice or constructive critisism ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Cremasta

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What was her body language like? Any laughing/giggling or shy smiles?

Her responses could have been for one of two reasons...

1. She wasn't as interested as her friend said.
2. She was boring

Either way, forget it, too many interested and interesting women out there to worry about this one.
 

PEACEDJ

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Personally, if her friend can tell you that she's into you, then trust her friend (girls hardly EVER admit that they like a guy and expect to give out that secret). I've heard this from a lot of girls that when they like a guy ALOT they don't know what to say (intimidation) and so if you want this chick just stick with her and talk to her... soon enough she'll get comfortable.
 
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