Hey can i get some advice on keeping conversations going with woman, maybe ive been talking to shy ones lately but last night for example some girl came up and told me her friend was into me, so i figured what the hell might as well say hi. I went up to this girls friend and was like "Hey how are you? she looks at me stone face and was like good ! so i smiled and said thats good so where you from, what do you do, mentioned the nfc payoff games and everytime i got the same type of one-3 worded response, So my friend came over and me and him started talking... at that time the girl went back to her table.... her friend came over and was like go talk to her again she doesnt know what to say to you !???? at this time im thinking what the hell can i say to her ? I dunno if she was shy or what but it was awkward and i just decided to up and leave the bar so i could get some sleep! Any advice or constructive critisism ?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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