Keeping the connection

[captain55]

After you guys bang a chick a few times and she starts to get attached, do you continue being the aloof ******* spinning other plates and only using her for sex? I have one plate I am interested in for a possible relationship but don’t want to stop going out with other women. She is starting to get attached to me, what is the best way to play this?

 

[SeekerOfTheWay]

spin more plates.

 

[Epic Days]

After you guys bang a chick a few times and she starts to get attached, do you continue being the aloof ******* spinning other plates and only using her for sex? I have one plate I am interested in for a possible relationship but don’t want to stop going out with other women. She is starting to get attached to me, what is the best way to play this?

Still see her but make it less often. Don’t have a schedule.

 

[captain55]

spin more plates.

Currently spinning two. What is the benefit of spinning 4-5 if I already ****ed her?

 

[Focal core]

Tell her that before she started to resent you..

 

[guru1000]

By asking how to play this you already lost the “game.” You pedestal her such a degree where you need to win her, where she, not you, becomes the sovereignty of your thoughts.

Does a King contemplate how to win his subject or does the subject have the onus to win the King’s good favor?

Change your vantage point and your need to create all these threads about specific women will no longer be.

 

[captain55]

By asking how to play this you already lost the “game.” You pedestal her such a degree where you need to win her, where she, not you, becomes the sovereignty of your thoughts.

Does a King contemplate how to win his subject or does the subject have the onus to win the King’s good favor?

Change your vantage point and your need to create all these threads about specific women will no longer be.

You obviously didn’t read my post. I ****ed this chick already, and took off to Italy. She’s already telling me she has feelings for me. And is nervous about be banging other chicks. There is nothing left to be “won” lol

I am just at the age where I am tired of playing the field. I need to become more of a nice guy and settle down, my player days are over and dating 3-4 girls at once is just too expensive when you live in Los Angeles

 

[17 shots]

dating 3-4 girls at once is just too expensive when you live in Los Angeles

Says the guy who buys women 500 dollar gift cards for no reason

 

[guru1000]

You obviously didn’t read my post. I ****ed this chick already, and took off to Italy. She’s already telling me she has feelings for me. And is nervous about be banging other chicks. There is nothing left to be “won” lol

I am just at the age where I am tired of playing the field. I need to become more of a nice guy and settle down, my player days are over and dating 3-4 girls at once is just too expensive when you live in Los Angeles

You asked what is the best way to play this? I answered but you didn’t soak it in. You’re caught up in the words and lose the meat.

Act within your sovereignty and you will answer your own question. No poster can give you a better answer than yourself in your superlative mindset.

I rather build your best mindset, not provide a bandaid. What does your sovereignty say is the best way to play this?

Mine speaks to me as follows: “she has to earn your exclusivity by proving to YOU that she is the best contender of the bunch. Give her the room to win that right.”