keeping the confidence flowing, even when everything sucks..

[Bilogomja]

All right, still trying with women. Lately though, I've been on a streak, overcoming fears of talking to women, approaching those I've thought were attractive, etc. Only a few problems, sure the communication part needs a little tweaking, not seeming desprate needs improvement, and I need to keep my self esteem/ confidence up.

Since Im pretty new to the "game," I've been hitting road blocks here and there, some days I feel I can conquer the world, others I feel like $hizt. My question is how do you keep your confidence and whatnot flowing, how do you stop yourself from reverting back into the bad habits of being a quiet, nice, desperate dweeb?

Comon fellas, I need some advice here...

 

[the_ajp]

I have the same problem, I fix it by putting energy in myself. So groom before you go out of the door take a shower do your hair floss your teeth. It also helps to get up early. Enjoy the fact that the sun shines or that is rains it doesn't matter. Listen to music taht makes you happy If I close the door with a smile I feel confident that day. If I don't have time to take a shower even if I showered the evening before I can ruin my whole day. Invest in yourself it works!

 

[Master Homer]

Just don't give a $hit about the bad stuff. Just remember, your a "Don Juan" when bad stuff happens to you. Be like Jack Sparrow (Johnny Depp, Pirates of the Carab.), bad crap happens, but what he got going for him is that he is Jack Sparrow and he is the $hit. Remember your the $hit so when bad stuff happens that doesn't change.