"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I lost my virginity the other night and I guess where I masturbate to porn and all I couldn't stay hard...

The morning of...I masturbated twice and I guess that plus I was a little nervous...I guess that contributed to me not being able to maintain an erection.

I just need advice on how to prevent this from happening the next time that my girlfriend and I are together....

What can I do so that I'll get and stay hard when I'm with her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Practice, practice, practice. The more you do it the better you will be.

Also, it may be that when you masturbate you use a tighter grip, so you're not used to the feel of a vagina.

Another thing it could be is that you're not used to wearing a condom.

So basically what you should do is go a little looser and easier when you masturbate, and try masturbating with a condom on.
 
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Originally posted by GoodToTheLastDrop
just don't masturbate so damn much.
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no thats not it....i mean i could get a hard on without even touching my ****....its all in your head, the **** is just a tool to give you and the girl an orgasm...well and reproduce....so masturbating or not wont have any effect on this case i think....you just have to relax. think about how hot she is...if shes not, that might be your problem
 
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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Another thing it could be is that you're not used to wearing a condom.
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Didn't wear one, bro. ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I was only pumping her for about 5 minutes but she would grab me and she acted like she was enjoying it and that she liked it. I didn't get off...

Was she faking the **** or was she really getting pleasure out of those 5 minutes?
 
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If it was too obvious that she was liking it then she just didnt want you think you were doing something wrong
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Aznkid1030
If it was too obvious that she was liking it then she just didnt want you think you were doing something wrong
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word.

dont girls get redder and more quiet/moaning and shaky and stuff when they are enjoying it? If they are screaming porno style, most likely they are faking it...

i dunno for sure though :woo:
 
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Originally posted by jenzos
word.

dont girls get redder and more quiet/moaning and shaky and stuff when they are enjoying it? If they are screaming porno style, most likely they are faking it...

i dunno for sure though :woo:
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dont ruin it for me haha
ignorance is bliss
 
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Well it wasn't huge moans...but she was grabbing me hard every once in awhile...I just didn't expect that.
 
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Originally posted by jenzos
word.

dont girls get redder and more quiet/moaning and shaky and stuff when they are enjoying it? If they are screaming porno style, most likely they are faking it...

i dunno for sure though :woo:
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Depends on the girl. Some are just screamers.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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the more i mess with real girls, the harder it is for me to jack off/ get hard - with porn... porn doesnt really turn me on that much ne more.
 
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