"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I lost my virginity the other night and I guess where I masturbate to porn and all I couldn't stay hard...

The morning of...I masturbated twice and I guess that plus I was a little nervous...I guess that contributed to me not being able to maintain an erection.

I just need advice on how to prevent this from happening the next time that my girlfriend and I are together....

What can I do so that I'll get and stay hard when I'm with her?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Practice, practice, practice. The more you do it the better you will be.

Also, it may be that when you masturbate you use a tighter grip, so you're not used to the feel of a vagina.

Another thing it could be is that you're not used to wearing a condom.

So basically what you should do is go a little looser and easier when you masturbate, and try masturbating with a condom on.
 
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Originally posted by GoodToTheLastDrop
just don't masturbate so damn much.
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no thats not it....i mean i could get a hard on without even touching my ****....its all in your head, the **** is just a tool to give you and the girl an orgasm...well and reproduce....so masturbating or not wont have any effect on this case i think....you just have to relax. think about how hot she is...if shes not, that might be your problem
 
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Originally posted by familyguyfan
Another thing it could be is that you're not used to wearing a condom.
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Didn't wear one, bro. ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I was only pumping her for about 5 minutes but she would grab me and she acted like she was enjoying it and that she liked it. I didn't get off...

Was she faking the **** or was she really getting pleasure out of those 5 minutes?
 
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If it was too obvious that she was liking it then she just didnt want you think you were doing something wrong
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Aznkid1030
If it was too obvious that she was liking it then she just didnt want you think you were doing something wrong
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word.

dont girls get redder and more quiet/moaning and shaky and stuff when they are enjoying it? If they are screaming porno style, most likely they are faking it...

i dunno for sure though :woo:
 
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Originally posted by jenzos
word.

dont girls get redder and more quiet/moaning and shaky and stuff when they are enjoying it? If they are screaming porno style, most likely they are faking it...

i dunno for sure though :woo:
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dont ruin it for me haha
ignorance is bliss
 
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Well it wasn't huge moans...but she was grabbing me hard every once in awhile...I just didn't expect that.
 
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Originally posted by jenzos
word.

dont girls get redder and more quiet/moaning and shaky and stuff when they are enjoying it? If they are screaming porno style, most likely they are faking it...

i dunno for sure though :woo:
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Depends on the girl. Some are just screamers.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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the more i mess with real girls, the harder it is for me to jack off/ get hard - with porn... porn doesnt really turn me on that much ne more.
 
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