Heres the deal, theres this girl I work with whos cool and looks pretty good and seems like someone I would like to possibly get with. She has a b/f though and even though she does she has shown high interest in me. Im still looking at other girls and pursuing others so im not just counting right now on this one to break up with her man or something then go out with me but I would like to keep her interest in me to where it doesnt get to the point where she only sees me as a friend later down the road in case something does happen. Do you get what im saying? Im going to continue with other girls and theres already some potential with them but this one at works seems more my type. What kind of tips do you guys have to keep her interest in me for a while so she could see me as a potential partner later on should something happen?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Keeping interest for possible relationship later...
- Thread starter El Don
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
chaosphere
Don Juan
Keep dropping innuendo. Don't fall into the friend zone. Don't hang out with her like friends would... keep the atmosphere flirty and make sure she knows your unspoken feelings toward her. That way when she does drop the chump, instead of being the guy she whines about it to, you get to be the rebound. Which is better than nothing.
Docs
Banned
Oh, the rebound, that's nice. 
How about the situation where I'm far far away from a girl....and won't see her for half a year. How does that work?
-Not that the actual answer matters much, I'm not doing too shabby.
How about the situation where I'm far far away from a girl....and won't see her for half a year. How does that work?
-Not that the actual answer matters much, I'm not doing too shabby.