Heres the deal, theres this girl I work with whos cool and looks pretty good and seems like someone I would like to possibly get with. She has a b/f though and even though she does she has shown high interest in me. Im still looking at other girls and pursuing others so im not just counting right now on this one to break up with her man or something then go out with me but I would like to keep her interest in me to where it doesnt get to the point where she only sees me as a friend later down the road in case something does happen. Do you get what im saying? Im going to continue with other girls and theres already some potential with them but this one at works seems more my type. What kind of tips do you guys have to keep her interest in me for a while so she could see me as a potential partner later on should something happen?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Keeping interest for possible relationship later...
- Thread starter El Don
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
chaosphere
Don Juan
Keep dropping innuendo. Don't fall into the friend zone. Don't hang out with her like friends would... keep the atmosphere flirty and make sure she knows your unspoken feelings toward her. That way when she does drop the chump, instead of being the guy she whines about it to, you get to be the rebound. Which is better than nothing.
Docs
Banned
Oh, the rebound, that's nice. 
How about the situation where I'm far far away from a girl....and won't see her for half a year. How does that work?
-Not that the actual answer matters much, I'm not doing too shabby.
How about the situation where I'm far far away from a girl....and won't see her for half a year. How does that work?
-Not that the actual answer matters much, I'm not doing too shabby.