Heres the deal, theres this girl I work with whos cool and looks pretty good and seems like someone I would like to possibly get with. She has a b/f though and even though she does she has shown high interest in me. Im still looking at other girls and pursuing others so im not just counting right now on this one to break up with her man or something then go out with me but I would like to keep her interest in me to where it doesnt get to the point where she only sees me as a friend later down the road in case something does happen. Do you get what im saying? Im going to continue with other girls and theres already some potential with them but this one at works seems more my type. What kind of tips do you guys have to keep her interest in me for a while so she could see me as a potential partner later on should something happen?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Keeping interest for possible relationship later...
- Thread starter El Don
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
chaosphere
Don Juan
Keep dropping innuendo. Don't fall into the friend zone. Don't hang out with her like friends would... keep the atmosphere flirty and make sure she knows your unspoken feelings toward her. That way when she does drop the chump, instead of being the guy she whines about it to, you get to be the rebound. Which is better than nothing.
Docs
Banned
Oh, the rebound, that's nice. 
How about the situation where I'm far far away from a girl....and won't see her for half a year. How does that work?
-Not that the actual answer matters much, I'm not doing too shabby.
How about the situation where I'm far far away from a girl....and won't see her for half a year. How does that work?
-Not that the actual answer matters much, I'm not doing too shabby.