Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Dude...if she truly had a REAL interest in you (other than just hooking up)...you can rest assure that she wouldn't be hooking up with other people.ManUnited01 said:Is it acceptable to us DJ's if a girl you are dating non-exclusively, dates other men? I'm interested in this girl and she seems to be interested in me, but my friend told me that she went out with this other guy and hooked up with him in the weekend. Should I just forget her and date other women? Or should I still make an effort to get her exclusively? Damn one-itis to hell...
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This is the thing...and I'm talking based on what I read in boards such as this and what I see in real life.playboy_supreme said:if your not exclusive then she can do what ever the f**k she wants, be a man and realise this. if you are that interested in her then persue an exclusive relationship. pick up your balls and talk to her. if thats not what she wants then get over it. as for dating other woman while u date her. its about what you want and from what you have written is that you dont want to date other people other wise u would. if you do then do.