"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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keeping her intrrested

walkguy

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I have a problem i think what do i do to keep a woman intrested , i think im doing the right things :
im including her in going to lunch with my friends rather than not inviting her
IF there is a movie she would like to see that maybe im not particularly intrested in , but ask her out anyway i assume im doing a good job if she says yes
so im assuming im doing ok with her in the dating department m, she would be willing to go out with me for future events
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sounds to me like you're making yourself too available to your lady targets. You say you invite them to lunch with your friends and yourself. Why can't you tell her "hey babe, going to lunch with my friends... back later"? As long as you're giving her a decent amount of time to spend together with her, thats good enough. And the whole going to a movie she likes but you dont thing doesnt fly with me if its done always. Do you call girls often when you're dating? How often? Are you a challenge? These are things you need to ask yourself and then you will know. If you haven't read the DJ bible you should. Lots of info in there that you could benefit from. Best of luck my friend.
 
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Here is what I posted on another recent thread...

Your problem is that you think you have to be her entertainer and her social promoter, or her tour guide! This is not the man's job!!!! Your own manly presence and company should keep her for the most part! If you have other worthy things going on in your llife, this willl give you the esteem and confidence to know that a 'good' woman would see these positive qualities and desire to stay!

A woman wants to be with you just as much, if not more, than you want to be with her!! Is she worried about entertaining you? Absolutely not! So why in the heck are you worried about being a socialite and not worried about being a man?

Men don't try to imprees women - that is not our duty.

Your duty is to seek female company and determine if you two are compatible with one another - courting/dating is to find out the answer~
 

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::Golf Clap Heard In Distance::

Well put PRLover. As the man your presence should be enough for the woman. I almost shed a tear PR when I read that. VIVA LA RASA! HISPANOS UNIDOS! Sorry, heh.
 
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